And I found is that the parents that have the older kids, they just let their kids go without any supervision while they kind of sit in the waiting area or the sitting area and read a book play on their phones. Occasionally they'll peek up or they see their kid doing something they're not supposed to do. They'll get up and correct them. But there was also a family there that had like, five kids, and the kids ranged from two second grade to toddler
Renee Slay
@Renee_Slay · 3:21
And she said, this is your day. You just can't make any judgments based off of that part, I think. But if it looked to be his responsibility to be handling the children, which that's what I'm hearing, then his a** should have pulled them bratty a** kids off that thing and told them that they after one warning, I think. Of course give them a warning. They don't know they're kids
Jordan Tepper
@JordanTepper · 2:35
Like if they were playing with the toy they wanted, they'll just take it. I didn't end up saying anything to anyone except for myself. Today we go there a lot. I've never seen those kids before, that parents before. Maybe they were just having a bad day, but I'm just going to keep this one in the back of my head and wait to see if it happens again
Swell Team
@Swell · 0:15
J.L. Beasley
@Her_Sisu · 4:53
There have been some conversations I've had with parents in those situations because something was said that they're like, well, she's three. And I'm like, well, f*** it, he's two. Like, what the h***? Like, you're assuming because he's taller than her. I'm sorry. We got good a** jeans, okay? Feed your kids some beans and rice. I don't know if it's you
J.L. Beasley
@Her_Sisu · 3:57
That's not your job, I think more, if anything, is just how do you parent your kids and advocate for them, teach them self advocacy and self empowerment and how they can be safe in those different place spaces, because they're not going to always be around you
Renee Slay
@Renee_Slay · 0:09
I just want to add that you just made me feel hella f****** fabulous. So thank you for the for hyping me up there. I appreciate that. Feels great. Thank you
Tracy Hansen
@momma2bubbas · 2:00
So it just seems like common sense to me. And if it's bothering you, I would say something or call somebody because you maybe could find another place to go. You sound like an absolutely fantastic father, and I think it's so sweet that you do this every week with your kids. So that's just my two cent worth
Jordan Tepper
@JordanTepper · 1:57
Thank you so much for your response. I really appreciate it. And getting response from other parents are helpful. Thank you for not thinking I was a Kevin, actually. Yeah, this, this place is it's a you have to pay to pay to play. And it's like the parents have to be there. I'm not quite sure it says for kids of all ages, but I do have to find out what the actual age limit is
Because I've seen that when I'm out somewhere, I've seen the mother struggling, trying to take care of the kids, trying to keep them in line, and the father is just walking on about his going on about his business and vice versa. But, yes, I think it should be both mother and father that take care of the kids while they're out, making sure that they stay in line or they're safe and everything like that when they're out and about