@jillbenoff
Jill Benoff
@jillbenoff · 4:43

Friendships vs Lending Money & Anyone listening please get your shingles shot! >50 it’s covered by insurance

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So there's this person who has two incomes and an 18 year old that works full time, and here I am lending her $10 here, $5, here, $15, maybe 20, blah blah, blah. And like I said, half the time she doesn't pay me back. So I told her, absolutely not. In caps. I said, if you really need money that bad, why don't you start a GoFundMe account?

Please get your shingles shot!!! #iamnotthebankofjill #useyourresources #askyourmamaidontneedyourdrama

@MsColes77
Tanya Coles
@MsColes77 · 4:26
So I don't loan people money. I don't do it. I give people money. I have a friend now that I gave $60 to about a month ago. She claims it's a loan because she keeps reminding me that she's going to pay me back. She's going to pay me back. She's going to pay me back
@jillbenoff
Jill Benoff
@jillbenoff · 1:07

@MsColes77

Do it so many times, the consequences are going to get pretty steep. So, no, I agree with you. Um, I stopped I'm stopping feeding the fish and I'm gonna go to sleep. Thank you so much for responding again. I truly appreciate it. Gave me a lot of things to think about. Have a good night
@Swell
Swell Team
@Swell · 0:15

Welcome to Swell!

@Kannon
Kannon Redd
@Kannon · 1:17
If I loan you something, I want you to absolutely understand that I need for you to pay me back what you thought or what you think is the appropriate amount for that loan. So if I give you $100, don't come and give me $20. That's not what the agreement was for. But a friend knows that I don't have to do a lot to give lot
@jillbenoff
Jill Benoff
@jillbenoff · 1:59

@Kannon

I'm just done you know, I like I said, I will give the shirt off my back to anyone in need, even though I'm struggling when this person has three sources of income and I'm getting paid 60% of my paycheck. Yeah, I mean, really, I wouldn't have cared if every time she did it, it was like, hey, how are you doing? Or hey, I really care about you. Do you need anything? No
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