You just carry it from relationship to relationship, and then along the way, we have other things that happen, other misunderstandings or other hurts and pains and other anger that come up, and then it just kind of dust balls in that bag that we're carrying. Gets bigger and bigger from relationship to relationship, from year to year. So I'm challenging you right now to join me on a journey of hitting the reset button. A few months ago, my 26 year old daughter passed away