So whether or not I did it correctly, I did the best of my ability, and I think that's all I can do. And whether or not my wife decides to get surgery or stay with the medicine, the best we can do is make our decisions on how we feel, what we know in the course we want to take. So, looking forward to hear some feedback on this stuff. These are obviously a lot of questions
Dewuan .
@FryedOreo · 3:58
Something's telling me this is exactly this, and it doesn't say it's based upon this study or that study or that study or that study, which any college or institution can do, which it seems these days makes a credible source of information. I'm a little on the fence. You have a lot of science out there that's really well groomed opinions, but they're disguised as science
J.L. Beasley
@Her_Sisu · 3:38
And so it's the things that they've run into or heard about at conferences, et cetera. And then they're coming together, they're bringing all of that together and developing a medical plan of care from that. And so for you and your wife, you guys have to take 1st 2nd opinion and then weigh your options, the pros and cons of each. What is the follow up or next step? If she has surgery and it's not successful, what's the next step?
Swell Team
@Swell · 0:15
I'm an Air Force veteran, and they did surgery and I woke up with blood running down the back of my throat and my daughter panicking because we could not figure out, well, if you fix it, why is it bleeding? I always say, get a third opinion. That third opinion will either validate the first, it swell, validate the second, unless it's totally different from either of those. And then there's a conundrum
But it's all sort of this shifting sort of surfing experience of letting things flow, letting them come, letting them go and doing our best with what arrives and what goes and accepting whatever the outcome is. It's scary in some ways, but it's all we got. But somehow intellectually understanding that there's no guarantee makes it all the easier, at least in my mind