I'm not taking that route. I don't hate women. Fact, women are probably the only vice that I actually have that I can't really deal without. I was raised by women. I don't have a father. So again so I think that a hard trait that women do is and they get defensive. They're going to get defensive over this comment
And conditional, that kindness, or however one defines being a gentleman, is only going to happen if you receive something in return. Would you care to clarify or elaborate?
Jason Esqueda
@Jason00Esqueda · 2:29
So when a woman, in my experience, through friends, whatever, but when a woman finds herself and knows her worth later on in life, I feel like they're coming into this saying, I'm the prize. Show me you deserve me. And I guess what I'm saying in general are talking to women, different podcasts and everything is women are already expecting men to show up with these gentlemen traits already where we're supposed to be gentlemen. If not, that's a red flag
Swell Team
@Swell · 0:15
I think I follow. If I were to paraphrase, I'd say, just as she sees herself to be a prize to be invested in and valued, you see yourself as a prize to be invested in and valued
Jason Esqueda
@Jason00Esqueda · 2:00
And I feel like people that are wanting to rent are walking on the car lot, and we don't have the same goals and everything in mind. If you're ready to commit or you're ready to find somebody or you're ready to date somebody or whatever your intentions are, you should show up with an open heart and open mind, knowing how hard it is to find somebody, because we're still single at this age
I don't know if you're just talking about something specific or not, but if she realizes, sees how dedicated you are, then maybe it doesn't have to become this constant chase, right? Instead, it can be because you don't know where that chase leads. Instead. If there's a communing of minds that sounds really weird, but you know what I mean?
Jason Esqueda
@Jason00Esqueda · 1:44
I just think because I'm just focused and I know when I see the potential on somebody and I don't say disappointment, I just feel like they're not fully opening up because they've been hurt so much or the traumas. I mean it gets a whole nother argument but I just think that that's the perspective, how we how we see it. I think for me at least a lot of people still believe in the magic of fall in love
Farika B Redux
@FarikaB_Redux · 3:15
I guess I want to know more about you, because I keep hearing it occurs to me, and I'm not saying this is what you're doing, but it's just occurring and through what you shared so far, like you're pointing the finger over there to the women and what they're doing. And you're saying that you're doing something, but yet you're the one seemingly dissatisfied. So it makes me wonder, then what is it that you are actually looking for?
Jason Esqueda
@Jason00Esqueda · 2:52
And I don't really look for people for just saying, hey, let's get married. But in any relationship. So I think what they're saying is building a foundation is find somebody that you line up with and it's less works. Certain things naturally line up and then every relationship or friendship or any kind of ship obviously is not perfect and has struggles. You can focus on connecting more or those issues than a bunch of little small ones. And I hope that makes sense
Farika B Redux
@FarikaB_Redux · 5:00
And I'm just trying to understand, I'm not questioning you and your motives and intent and them and their motives and intent, but if you are putting this out there for a response of any sort, I would say one. Yeah, I guess it depends on the woman, if she's in a traditional mindset. And if she is, she probably does want to be wooed, pursued as it was done once before. Right
Farika B Redux
@FarikaB_Redux · 4:21
And although you're saying that these women are different, it sounds like you're saying you don't have a style or a type, that you date women from all different ages, et cetera. Maybe that is the concern. Maybe you do need to narrow down your choices of who you're looking to pursue. What is it? And this is where I go back to