But I wanted to I wanted to talk about something. I just got out of a conversation with a really good friend of mine, and she's actually going through she's just stuck in a bit of a financial slump right now. Right. And she came to me, and she opened up about her situation. But the thing about this girl is she's solid. Like, when she's she does her thing, she's not a slacker
Dewuan .
@FryedOreo · 4:35
So I think sometimes too, is where you stand in the family. I'm the black sheep of the family. At least I feel I am. I don't really be around my family all that much. So for me to ask for something, it's like she can almost be a bit petty about it. Like, oh, now you need my help. Whereas my older brother asked her for money so much that it's fine. It's normalized if he asks for money
Eluchianna Olive
@Luchianna · 5:00
You still would have been in that financial situation, because now you're still going to be in a financial situation because you still owe it. Now. That's why you don't lend money that you don't have. And number two, I don't deal with family like that because they make you feel guilty, especially the ones who do have it. To me, it wasn't about money. I remember a sister, she married an older man
Jae Alexander
@Jandrea · 4:58
I get when you're saying that whole they kind of start acting petty and shady and kind of relish in the fact that you need us now type thing, and that's really sad. It's sad, and it's a hurt piece, and we do it a lot to ourselves, our people, our family. We do that a lot to each other, and it's sad
Dollar Bill
@dollarbill · 1:36
Jay, that's a very interesting antidote because I have one I would like to share with you. This is Dollar Bill from the Bronx. And I have a good friend. We've been friends since we were three years old, and now we're 58 years old. And he borrowed $1,000 from me about three years ago, and I gave him, like, six months to give me the money. And now he doesn't return my calls
Swell Team
@Swell · 0:15
Jae Alexander
@Jandrea · 3:39
But when you do need help and you are going to family or like you said, someone in your case, your friend, since you guys were, like, three years old, you would think that it would be like like you said, I didn't get a promissory note. I didn't get anything