I was thinking about this earlier today, and it was actually a relationship that I was in years ago, I guess about seven, eight years ago, and we broke up. Me and the guy broke up, but we broke up because he cheated. And that's a straight deal breaker for me. It's a deal breaker. I'm sorry. I cannot see myself doing the second chance, because that wouldn't be good for him. It wouldn't be good for the relationship
J.L. Beasley
@Her_Sisu · 4:57
Hey Jay. I have two examples. One is a good friend whose hurt a sister and at the end I realize that I considered a her a best friend sister but she did not necessarily consider me a best friend or sister. What she did stay connected to me through the benefits of how I returned, how I was in the high regarding the scene. I held her in the friendship dynamic
Jae Alexander
@Jandrea · 1:42
But then I think, if I heard correctly, everything came around a few years later, five, six years later. And you, I'm not sure, got back into the friendship as divorcee with your friend. Right. If that was the case, if that is what I heard. I'm glad to hear that. Hopefully the friendship is, even though it dissolved in previous years, that it is back now
Dewuan .
@FryedOreo · 3:30
So, yes, her and I tried to pretend as if we were not pretend, but just approach the dynamic from a physical way more so than I mean, occasionally we would go out to eat and stuff like that, but they primarily was just physical again, and it just didn't work. It just didn't work. And there was another instance where someone who I talked to a while ago and we were friends, but we were friends with benefits
J.L. Beasley
@Her_Sisu · 1:33
It could have been because I was on a train and the sound and the signal and all of that combined was going in and out. But I was essentially saying was that I had a friend and my son's father who I had this relationship with all at the same time and time. Not together like a throuple, but parallel relationships that both ended. And then I resumed both of them at different times. But at the end of the day, they both also ended again the second time
Jae Alexander
@Jandrea · 3:53
As far as that situation, men and women read things differently. And like you said, you didn't even realize that that's what she was saying for you didn't say anything. I thought it was just straightforward like this. It's a podcast, it's interview with over. We're done. And women, I don't know, we just have a total different way of thinking and perceiving
Dewuan .
@FryedOreo · 3:13
But anyway, I feel like it kind of did like, we're cool, but we're not the best way I could kind of describe it. So, yeah, but thanks for this conversation. Second chance chances. Yeah, man. Bless people hearts who make it work and obviously they can find some deeper meaning within their connection through the second journey, and it can be more powerful and beneficial for their relationship overall