Shayy Butter
@iYB_ShayButter · 4:55
Gender pronouns debate… (no disrespect intended at all!)
I asked her now, me knowing her as a her, no disrespect, but she told me he and him. I was like, oh, okay, well, I do apologize because I've been telling her she and obviously her. So I was like, okay, cool, thank you, thank you and everything. She was like, thank you for understanding. A lot of people don't understand that, but I respect you for asking
Shayy Butter
@iYB_ShayButter · 4:59
And I guess I'm just wanting to know, is it considered disrespectful to ask pronouns if you don't know if you can't outright say, okay, that's a dude or that's a girl? I mean, is it disrespectful to ask that or are we too caught up in wondering if it's a woman or man in the first place? Like, should it even matter? Like, actually doesn't even really matter. That's the question. And I guess I'm a type person
Shayy Butter
@iYB_ShayButter · 3:51
Okay, so back to my I accidentally had said CIS male. So CIS so cisgender male would not be, you know, like I said, I'm still kind of learning everything, but I meant a transgender male, like a male trans, a male turns himself into a woman, was an ambassador in the women's basset. Would it bother you? Why are we not and vice versa, woman transmail in the male bathroom?
Braxxton Brown
@Br33zy · 4:57
But I'll know when you're disrespecting me, and as a human being, I don't allow any type of disrespect. When it comes to the bathroom thing, even before I transition, I've never personally liked public restrooms. I think men and women are equally disgusting being on both sides of the fence. I just think that people treat these public restrooms like they treat their homes
Shayy Butter
@iYB_ShayButter · 4:50
Alright, so first of all, thank you for your input. I really appreciate you chiming in on this topic, being a part of the community and just to share your experiences and your opinions and, and things dealing with this topic. I do agree with you on the entire the public restroom thing. Yeah, that hits the nail on the head. Like that's actually pretty true
J.L. Beasley
@Her_Sisu · 4:46
But if I don't commit that to memory because there's only one me or a team of three, and we work with all like 30,000 people, I mean, I can remember 30,000 pronouns. So just give me some grace here and just remind me. But definitely if it's an email signature, I'm using what they have in their email signature
Braxxton Brown
@Br33zy · 5:00
Now the hurdles come in, and then I think this is where it gets misconstrued. And I'll even take it a step further and tell your boyfriend, feel free to chime in. This is just a conversation. I'm not trying to disrespect him or anything like that. But part of your thought process and saying that it's a mental disorder and almost associated with the bathroom thing, where you're like, let's take a trans, because transgender females get it worse than transgender males
Braxxton Brown
@Br33zy · 3:30
Whether you choose to be a dog today or a worm tomorrow, if you were born a female and you have what is it, the Y chromosome or some s***, you're going to bleed. So at least out of the five to seven days you're not non binary, you're a f****** girl, you're going to leave. I'm sorry. I don't care. I don't care. I don't care