𝚆𝚑𝚢 𝚍𝚘 𝚜𝚝𝚛𝚊𝚗𝚐𝚎𝚛 𝚜𝚞𝚙𝚙𝚘𝚛𝚝 𝚢𝚘𝚞 𝚖𝚘𝚛𝚎 𝚝𝚑𝚊𝚗 𝚏𝚛𝚒𝚎𝚗𝚍𝚜 𝚊𝚗𝚍 𝚏𝚊𝚖𝚒𝚕𝚢?
Oh, that's great. And then they talk about something else, or maybe you got some kind of social media going on. And they get on social media. You see them on there all the time, okay, they're on there all the time looking at everybody's stories and reels and commenting and reacting to everything. But you post something about something you're selling or some grand opening or something like that, and just no love. You don't get no love
Erica Jean
@HeyItsErica · 4:41
Now, thankfully, I can say that so far, these successes that my husband and I have had, people have genuinely spread warmth online and via text messages, very welcoming to our success, very open, receptive and loving towards our success, even the ones who weren't there for us. And I don't hold grudges, so it was very nice to see that
Pixelpixie78 Pixel
@Soar · 5:00
And sometimes when you have a vision and a voice and you do your own thing and you're used to operating in a system of relationships, whether that be a family, whether that be a close circle of friends, when you sometimes elevate to your best potential in the moment, sometimes others aren't ready to meet you there
Swell Team
@Swell · 0:15
Pixelpixie78 Pixel
@Soar · 2:16
But I think, and I hope that my message is conveyed, to keep on your path despite anybody that is not getting it, because it will find you. I have to believe that. I have to believe it. I've seen it. It's doomy and gloomy out there. Do not give up no blame and shade on people that maybe don't have the capacity to love and support you. A lot of things
So it's hard for them to want to support you in something, in a place where they don't know you sometimes and that they're not a part of something and I mean not a part of something with you where it doesn't benefit the whole of the family unit, their idea of you or anything like that. I would not mind also talking about kind of when you need help as well because that portion of things I still feel is relevant now
Pixelpixie78 Pixel
@Soar · 1:49
Hi. I don't know if this was post was supposed to go to me because my handle is at Sore. You can call me Chrissy. I don't think I mentioned envy and jealousy in my post. And I'm going to listen closely, but I do want to end on this. And this is a quote from Alice Walker. Because again, I mentioned, please find that essay. If I can send it to you, I will figure out a way to do so within this platform
And one of the things that stood out the most that I think is very important for myself and for others to really wrap around, as when you were talking about the functionality of your family and the generational trauma, like as it pertains to the family unit. And I think that so many people are experiencing that part of lack of support from family and not understanding why
DAYDAY Mcclenton
@KINGPOPOFLA · 2:57
And your brain is, like, into a little bit of everything that you've been wanting to do that you started off doing but couldn't do for a certain amount of time because of a situation that you fell upon or no fell upon you, and you had no choice, you know what I'm saying? So when you got all of that going on and you look for support, you don't look for no stranger
Maurice Aoki
@mauriceaoki · 2:35
And then I lost my phone, had to get a new profile. But what stood out the most for me is what you said about not expecting yourself in others. And that's where I'm at right now in my life. I have to realize that I can't expect people to automatically reciprocate the love, affection, understanding my physical nature, the way I express that