But when it was done to me, I was very hesitant. I was not a confrontational person. And I've learned that confrontation in a very healthy way. It's okay. Communication is key. Having conversations key, building relationships is amazing. So I've learned that we so called claim to love everyone, but then yet when it comes down to ourselves, we don't know how to defend ourselves or be available for ourselves, for everyone. That I really didn't love myself