Busy Bodies=No Bueno
But they did not choose to feel as if they were not the person they were supposed to be, that they were the wrong gender to feel out of place, not invited to the party, confused about which public restroom. To use and not wanting to offend or make anyone else uncomfortable, to feel unwanted in their own skin, even to be harassed and ridiculed and bullied by the a** hats that do that sort of thing