Luce Fonrose
@ilovelucee · 3:23
"I Fumbled You"
The person could have chose to no longer pursue that person for a number of reasons. And being a great person is obviously a wonderful thing, but unfortunately that's not the only thing that sustains a relationship. You have to be compatible. There has to be a genuine connection there. There are other factors there. Because if it was just all about if you're a great person or not, then I think a lot of people would not be breaking up
Dewuan .
@FryedOreo · 3:04
You initially can feel that way, but I think it's for the best. Ultimately, it just wasn't meant to be. So yeah. I can say for myself that I guess I just want different things now than I did when I was in my 20s. Certain things I'm just not as. Like, there was a girl I was talking to recently. I went to school with her, and I always liked her
Tanya Coles
@MsColes77 · 4:42
But if you're expecting people to come to the relationship already done up and pretty with a bow on top and everybody's perfect and yes, this is everything I wanted in a person, then that's not realistic either. I saw a thread on Twitter where men actually explain why they messed up in relationships with women that were good women. They talked about how they were dealing with their own personal childhood traumas they didn't know how to overcome. They didn't know who they were
Luce Fonrose
@ilovelucee · 4:19
Habitually, short tempered, those type of things. This is more so towards that. That is when I feel like, okay, that might not be a fumble. You might be a great person, but those characteristics that you lack completely can make it very difficult for you to be with that person. And I do agree that it is important for us to grow with others
Luce Fonrose
@ilovelucee · 2:17
And I feel like even like I said at a young age, I was looking for more. And I think I kind of always attracted that. But regarding the person that you were talking to, I get that there are times where you look up with somebody and you'll start talking to somebody, then you quickly realize, okay, this isn't what I thought it was. Like, you are a cool person, but I'm not into it at all
Andrea Piggue
@Andrea_Speaks · 2:49
I wasn't meant to be in that person's life. And so I fumbled them, and we ended up nodding each other's lives, and then they ended up getting having somebody else get in their life, and that was their person, right? You can fumble somebody, and because you're not healed, you can fumble somebody because you're not mature enough to be with them. It happens, right? They can fumble you for the same reasons
Luce Fonrose
@ilovelucee · 3:07
So I feel like if it's one of those cases where it's like, okay, no matter what, we're just not vibing together, even though you're a great person, I don't feel like that's I fumbled. You believe that it was just never going to work out anyway. But I do believe, kind of like what you said, that people just come into your life in different seasons for a reason