@ilovelucee
Luce Fonrose
@ilovelucee · 4:45

Make Good Decisions the FIRST Time

Obviously, this does not apply to certain things, but I'm saying a lot of people that go to jail and things like that, it's like the difference between when I think about it, I'm like, they're not bad people. They made a horrible decision, and for that they're going to have to pay for that for d*** near the rest of their life. And again, I know it's hard sometimes because life stressors
@MsColes77
Tanya Coles
@MsColes77 · 1:46
Hey, SIS. This is valuable wisdom. We do need to make right choices. But I will say that sometimes we in the moment make what we feel is the right choice with the information that we have available to us. Sometimes we make choices because we don't know any better. We're ignorant, we're young, we don't know. And so we're making decisions, the best decisions we think we can make at that time with the information that we have
@NeophyteSavant
Moe Johnson
@NeophyteSavant · 5:00

@ilovelucee

No matter how much you're doing the right thing somebody got an attitude because the way you looked at them and that's not even where your mom was at. These young kids, you glance at them and they so ultra sensitive or you step on someone a foot by mistake and you say, Excuse me and it's still not enough. You're in a relationship and something don't go right and there's a lack of communication
@Swell
Swell Team
@Swell · 0:15

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@chitchatwithkk
Kitha Larie
@chitchatwithkk · 5:00
I never say I made a mistake. Even if I chose a bad relationship or wrong relationship, I'm like, I learned from that s***. There was something I got out of it. Whether I was in a relationship and I really cared for the person, they didn't care for me, but I hadn't had those feelings in a long time. Well, that relationship taught me that I could love again. I could still love
@ilovelucee
Luce Fonrose
@ilovelucee · 2:54

@NeophyteSavant

I definitely can't relate for sure. I don't know if you're spiritual or anything like that, and if you're not, that is perfectly fine. But I am. So I'm just going to make a reference to this. That's how the devil works
@ilovelucee
Luce Fonrose
@ilovelucee · 2:37

@chitchatwithkk

It's going to hurt you. That life as you know it is no longer the same. So two things can be true. You can choose not to dwell in the past, but you can also still feel the effects of the consequences, feel the effects of what you did. And basically, what I was trying to say is, yes, it's true. Like you said, we should not dwell in it, because that just keeps us in a negative space
@chitchatwithkk
Kitha Larie
@chitchatwithkk · 2:13
You. Hey. Good day. I definitely agree what you said when you said that there could be consequences. My dad used to always say life has consequences. And that worked better in parenting than being spanked or being punished. Because I remember one time I wanted to get got this Pearson. It was eyebrow Pearson. And it really didn't affect me that much. But I remember my mom was like, no, you can't get it and you can't come home
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