@iamkedeja
Stacey Kedeja
@iamkedeja · 4:52

I could have handled it better…

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I got to a point in my life where I was just like, this all has to stop because I am causing my own pain now. He is no longer around. He did what he did, but now I am just adding on to the pain that he had caused

#relationship #cheating #selflove #hurt #heartbroken

@Andrea_Speaks
Andrea Piggue
@Andrea_Speaks · 3:40
When I was in a broken place and I wasn't on my healing journey, I did some things that I could have handled better, could have done better. There's some things I could have not said. And so I totally understand, and I get it. And I even think about when my father died, when my adoptive dad died, there were some things I could have done differently. There were
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Mike W
@Scribe7 · 5:00
When your heart's ripped open for everybody to see, so you let them see so they can heal. You know what I mean? And it's brave. It's very brave. It's very courageous. Nobody wants to do that for real. For real. It may be easier than being face to face, but you help somebody tonight. I know you helped me and I've been done with that thing for a minute and I've been doing what I got to do
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Swell Team
@Swell · 0:15

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@Scribe7
Mike W
@Scribe7 · 4:50
From what I understand, I may be going through something next week that I went through when I was 15, but if you don't address your issues, they're going to address you. And until you get a chance to experience yourself acting ash and say, look, I'm going to do something different, then you know, you got a choice. If you don't know you got a choice, you're going to do the same thing that you did the last time
@iamkedeja
Stacey Kedeja
@iamkedeja · 2:19
I thank you so much for responding and being honest and running through all your thoughts, and I understand everything that you were saying because I felt that way before. And I appreciate the fact that you see that I'm more trying to cut through the bullshit. I believe in all the shadow work. Yes, I'm about the healing journey, I'm about finding peace within and all of that, but I want my platform to be authentic and people to understand that I'm just not a phrase
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Debora Grandison
@JOYFULLYYOURS · 1:48

@iamkedeja

You. Khadija there are so many people who will be blessed by hearing your testimony. There will be so many people who have been looking for someone who's authentic, who has a relatable story, and who is willing to use their voice for the voiceless. That's what you're doing. So continue to bless others with your testimony. Your testimony wasn't given to you for you to sweep it under the rug, to shove it in a drawer or close the door and never look back
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