If they say no, I wouldn't. That's how much validation he had. It's a cute haircut. Still, though, trying to change people who were committed to staying the same, I no longer try that. And sometimes it's hard because I see potential and I see greatness in other people, and I wish they'd see it in themselves. Allowing dysfunctional family members to steal my joy. Now vulnerable. I don't have a relationship with any of my siblings