I had him cheat and then turn against me and then the stalker situation. And I just did not feel safe with anyone. And for that, a lot of things had transpired in my life and within me. And what I learned was I had to listen to my gut feeling and work on my power discernment, really listen to it, and make sure that I don't allow myself to stay in positions that are not safe for me spiritually, mentally, emotionally, and physically