I've heard of people that when they're cheated on, they try to make the relationship work and find a path to forgiveness, which, I mean, in an ideal world would be great. I'm sitting there and thinking to myself, but what if it had happened to me? Would I be able to forgive that person, trust that person again? I don't know. I think I may be a little petty
Eluchianna Olive
@Luchianna · 4:57
And if you will lie about the big things or lie about the small things, then to me, I can't trust you with my life, which is precious. And so that would make it easy for me. But everybody's not there. Everybody can't not say necessarily think outside the box, but put things in perspective. If you're willing to work at it and on it, then fine. It's nobody's business. It's really not any one business
Shehla Faizi
@iamatopodcast · 0:57
Thank you so much for your reply, Luchianna. I think that's where I am, and I've seen those things. I've seen people when they're cheated on, they're like, that's a nogo, I'm not taking you back in. And I've seen people take whichever partner cheated, take them back in and forgive them
Swell Team
@Swell · 0:15
Aayan Banerjee
@BasTalk · 4:51
You find a new skill set, you find a new interest in the same role, you find a new facet to your same responsibility. And therefore the new bell curves keep on adding and you have a upward trajectory. In case of human emotions, that is slightly more difficult. But we still do follow somewhat a similar trajectory. It's unfair to assume that lifelong one will have the same degree of attachment emotion
Shehla Faizi
@iamatopodcast · 2:46
So it's not like that they didn't know each other from before or that there was any, or that their level of knowing each other was shallow. It's just that this person decided to cheat on my friend and not tell my friend. My friend found out through somebody else. It was more of a situation that they wanted their cake and eat it too. So I think it's not as simple as a waxing and waning of emotions and the communications of that. Sometimes people are just trash