But at the same time, I don't know what the correct move is to make the situation better or to just ease the tension that's going on without me feeling like I'm disregarding the way I feel or the way I'm upset at that moment
Sometimes in a lot of situations, he can manage to actually get to me or to relieve the tension that's going on, or he just hugs me and it's all done, but not all the time. That does not work all of the time, so it's not really consistent. And sometimes I feel like a situation becomes really tense and just grows really big for nothing. I feel like a lot of the situations did not deserve all that