L A
@homosanity · 4:03
When someone asks for your sexual position first thing, is that a red flag
Well, no, of course not. But it's along the lines of saying, well, how does this person look? Well, they have a great personality. Well, would you marry somebody because they have a great personality and you're not interested in sex? Well, if you're not interested in sex, good for you, go for it. But a number of people, that's that's important to them, so it just kind of depends. So it can be a red flag
Patric Phillips
@patriclane · 4:19
I think leading with sex is such a strong behavior in the gay community, it's very porn informed as well. And I'm not saying porn is necessarily bad. It's just it controls a lot of stereotypes within the community. So I think maybe instead we should be saying, what do you get out of what? What's your favorite thing about sex? Or how do you like to come? Do you like to come on your back with a dick in your ass?
L A
@homosanity · 4:40
I just meant in the role of being the receiver, being the actual bottom or the one taking the penis. So if we were thinking about the original question was or the idea wasn't for the gay community, why it might be kind of somewhat important to somebody to know is that if there is somebody that is set in a particular role, you might want to find that out. So it seems to be important to some people. It just depends on who you are