And like, a couple of times to one friend, I brought it up. So then he went and liked something, but then it goes right back to where it is, so it just kind of miffs me. It's almost kind of like. Almost feels like, yeah, I want to talk to you on the side. Like, when we're one on one, but not publicly in front of people, I don't want to acknowledge you
SayCo Show
@saycoshow · 4:36
I've had friends that have come and gone and that's okay. I think we all have had really good friendships that have kind of died away, and that's okay. And what people think of you or what people think of me, I guess I should say, is none of my business. And so, yeah, I just want to let you know and hear from me that I think a lot of people go through this
L A
@homosanity · 3:07
And now know on Facebook, I don't know if you know, but if you unfriend, you can still see if the person likes something else on somebody else's page, but if you block them, you can't. But sure enough, he has stopped liking things, like all over the place on all my other friends pages now that I've done that. So I think he was actually doing something to, I don't know, like upset me, make me jealous
Natasha Nurse
@DressingRoom8 · 2:50
And it's like, why can't you post? Or why can't you like? Or why can't you share? Unfortunately, people are going to do what they want to do. And as Maya Angelo taught us, when people show us who they are, we need to believe them the first time and not keep giving second and third chances
L A
@homosanity · 2:09
Like, they'll put stuff out there and then people will comment on what they put and they don't even really reply much to what people put, which drives me crazy, too, to see that it's like, oh, my gosh, I do not even have the decency to reply to people or hit a like because they replied to your stuff. It's just so selfish to me
Natasha Nurse
@DressingRoom8 · 2:21
And to your point, we have seasons of love and difference. Sometimes we show up one way and six months later we're showing up a different way. Foolishness. But that is what it is to be human. So sending love and blessings and light your way, and I hope that helps. Have a good day
So I Uber and Lyft and bust everywhere. I'm adventurous like that in terms of my traveling and day tripping and wanting to see things. So that's how I do stuff or whatever. But in terms of friendships, I would say at this point in life, I really would get too hung up on it. There is an app called Bumble BFf
It's like companionship, friendship, somebody have my back, somebody be my boo thing, somebody to hold me down, somebody that can just drive around with in a car, and we just have a beautiful time together. But there are so many things that gets in the way of that. I'm just hoping this gives you a little insight into it. Don't mean to bring race into it, but it is what it is. Just more of my perspective and thoughts on it
L A
@homosanity · 1:56
Well, I wish you well. And we will find our, mostly the apps I mostly deal with are Facebook, Instagram, Twitter. I don't really have any problem here in swell. Swell is my family. I love swell. I'm making friends here, so I love everybody here in swell because it's swell. Isn't it swell? It's swell for me. Hope it's swell for you. All right, have a good day. Bye
She was like one of these born and raised Los Angeles people, and me being born and raised New Yorker, we had both never seen whatever. And then when I was finally moving out here, finally met up, hung out, linked up online. She's a great person in person. It was like, girl, what happened to you? Girl? Oh, my God. Her personal life just was totally not what her online life seemed to be like. And that was a lesson totally learned
L A
@homosanity · 4:41
But yeah, it's tough and there are so many dangerous situations I could have been in and so many situations I could throw myself in where people are like, oh, come and live with me. And later I find out from other people where I almost did, and it would have been a terrible situation. Just terrible