Erica Jean
@HeyItsErica · 4:39
A Woman Says Her Brother LEFT His Woman of 10 Years, To Marry Someone He ONLY Knew For 7 Months?!🙄 PART 1
But if he feels that after only seven months that him and this other woman click well together, then who are we? My thing is you as a woman, once you see the signs, because we're not psychic, so we just have to go off of signs. Once you see the signs that this guy is not filling, you do your own self a favor and not waste your time. Let him be free of to be with the one he feels is for him
Angela Kaye
@AnngieKaye · 3:01
They'll give you a ring, and then you go from a ten year relationship to a ten year engagement, and it still never happens. Right? But there are a lot of women with these stories, and this is not new. I know I have someone of a cousin down the line. We're in our 40s. Her parents have been together, like, 50 years. Not legally married. They have a house together. They got kids and grandkids, the whole nine
Erica Jean
@HeyItsErica · 0:56
Hey, Anne, thank you for chiming in. You raised a very good point. If he was able to go to another person and marry them within seven months, nine times out of ten, he probably knew that woman already, which for the other woman is kind of unfortunate because she was just pretty much a placeholder then. But like I said, there's no winners or losers in this. But if I were to look at it from that angle, that's kind of sucky
Swell Team
@Swell · 0:15
Eluchianna Olive
@Luchianna · 2:42
But to be with somebody for ten years, you had to know you could not been blindsided. But I think sometimes women we know, but we tend to kind of, like, put our hope in the possibility that they will come around, change their mind. I don't know. They haven't did it after three years. What makes you think they're going to do it after adding seven more years? But it's not embarrassing
Evelyn Phipps
@LadyFi · 2:57
Do I feel sorry for him? Kind of, yeah, kind of. Because he doesn't know where his other daughters are and I understand that is cruel and people shouldn't do that. If she don't want to be with him, she should just tell him and then they can maybe work out something for custody
Erica Jean
@HeyItsErica · 2:16
Hey Luchianna, thank you for responding. I hope I pronounced your name right. I actually enjoyed your answer because it is true. We don't know if the other woman laid down some ground rules for the relationship or boundaries or some type of standards that she wanted to have. And it is true, even though there's no winners here or losers, I do agree with you 1000% that she had to have known something
Erica Jean
@HeyItsErica · 2:44
And like, the person in the comment section, she was like, I think it was the comment section under the YouTube short, she said a guy literally told her very early in the relationship that he's not a good person to develop a long family relationships with. And she said she very kindly thanked him for letting her know that that way she wouldn't waste his time and that way he wouldn't waste hers. But, yeah, thank you for sharing
dee felton
@MrDee · 4:40
But I always let her know, hey, you know, cuz, I don't want you to pour your all into something. And right now I'm still dealing with, you know, this past trauma that I've went through or whatever. Some guys have experiences like that, then some guys just will straight out say, hey, I don't want a relationship. And one more thing. Okay, you saying it now, but once I put this thing on you, you probably will
Erica Jean
@HeyItsErica · 3:54
Because if a guy is showing you that he don't want you and he's even telling you, why are you going to continue to cook him meals, sex him crazy and do all these things, and at the end, you as a woman going to be looking crazy. Why do that? So there's a lot of women who are like, you know, they're not going to give their whole heart because what is the trade off here? You know, what?