Erica Jean
@HeyItsErica · 3:04
Would You Give Your YOUNG Lover To Another Woman If YOU Can’t Bear His Children? Book Talk Sessions
Hi, y'all. So twice I've spoken about this book that I read called his Muse, where a 44 year old woman begins a relationship with a 29 year old man. The 29 year old man in the story, he falls very hard for the 44 year old. The book describes the 44 year old as looking very young herself, like, she kept herself up really well. The young man was very attracted to her
Kitha Larie
@chitchatwithkk · 3:57
I know there's people out there who would be willing to allow him to go ahead and have a baby, but not I. Not I. If he's going to do that, then, and he's knowing that, that maybe I have difficulty or the things. Because we would talk about it, you know, because that's something that you definitely need to talk about in relationships. Even today when I'm dating, I ask people like, are you wanting to have more kids?
Evelyn Phipps
@LadyFi · 1:26
Do you understand the fact that you're going to be gone by the time your child grows up, if you have a child this old? No, I know I shouldn't be answering this. Well, because I'm, what? But I'm wide awake lying down. But anyway, girl, never. That's all I can say. Never
Swell Team
@Swell · 0:15
Ezora Quiones
@Ezora2B · 3:35
And, you know, I don't go, you know, deal with the back and forth because if I ever feel like somebody is lying to me or I'm not wanting in a relationship, I'll walk away. And it's just that simple for me. You know, I understand it's not that way for everybody, but it is for me. And I guess that's where we differ. Like, if she has those type of issues, she really shouldn't be dating younger men
Erica Jean
@HeyItsErica · 1:57
And we don't really get to see too much of that until the middle of the book and then towards the end of the book, and it gets annoying because as you get to know the main character, you really, really like her. You like what she's doing, you like the direction that she is going. But yeah, shoving other women in his face. No. And I agree with everything that you said, azora, when you mentioned that we have to understand our gift of goodbye
Erica Jean
@HeyItsErica · 2:30
Hi, Evelyn. Thank you so much for contributing to this. Well, and I hope you're doing better, hon. Yeah, girl. I could never. The entire time I was reading the book, especially towards the end, I was like, I could never see myself doing that. Like, when his eyes finally landed on that beautiful, bohemian woman, every book reader said it felt like their heart was ripped out of their chest
Erica Jean
@HeyItsErica · 3:54
And that's when her heart starts to crack because she knows beyond a doubt, even though he really wants her, even though he says it and shows it, the deal breaker is the fact that he is not if, but he is going to want to have kids. And that breaks her heart. And he is such a loving guy that she doesn't want him to be with her for 1015 or 20 years, wanting a child, but never can have one