J.L. Beasley
@Her_Sisu · 4:52
Oops, I’ve said the E word!
Now, I'm not saying go throw children away, but you keep reinforcing your boundaries and then you alter how you engage with them so that your values are maintained and respected. Same thing for a spouse, same thing for a lover
phil spade
@Phil · 2:02
Great postjl and I will be the first to admit that I was absolutely wondering what the eword was. I was trying to guess at it, didn't come up with it. And when I listened to you about expectations, I think you're just spot on here. And I wanted to share, you know, my evolution on what expectations are, especially as a parent and how they've changed over the years. It really became a game changer
Jack .
@zejacques · 2:04
Hey, JL. This is a great swell. Thanks for sharing and inviting me. I really enjoy listening to you speak. And when you were speaking, I was kind of like picturing in my head the situations where maybe I've had higher expectations of others and not thought so much back to myself. But, yeah, I was thinking a lot about work environments where I'll be working with people
Swell Team
@Swell · 0:15
J.L. Beasley
@Her_Sisu · 1:49
Like, in the last year and a half, this mindset and this concept just from inner work that I have been doing and things that I've been learning, and it's totally changed my life in terms of the level of peace I have with myself and with others, because I no longer have the expectations for others. I only have expectations for myself. I'm no longer thinking about, is that person doing this and doing it that way at that time and at that degree?
J.L. Beasley
@Her_Sisu · 2:58
The expectations I only need to have are for myself, that I, in my role, still operate with the same level of excellency and commitment and integrity and ethics. Thank you. That's that was an epiphany for me