So that meant when they went back to their mother that following week that they came back, they were going to be in a different home. So that left them very little to zero. Time to say bye to friends. That meant new schools. A lot of things were going to change for them, and these were teenage preteen boys. And I just remember looking at him that day thinking, oh, my God
Angela Kaye
@AnngieKaye · 3:56
And I know you said you've been with your guy for, like, three years and he just met your son, so it's on a case by case basis, I really believe. But what I don't think people should do is wait till we about to get married to say, hey, here's your new stepmother. Meet her. Or, hey, we about to move next week. Here you go. I don't think that should be sprung on children like that
J.L. Beasley
@Her_Sisu · 4:51
I have had both dating experiences where I've introduced right away and that just does not personally work for me. I need time to get to know that person and evaluate and experience for myself the consistency of that person and the solidness of that person's leadership. As a man, I need that
Swell Team
@Swell · 0:15
Evelyn Phipps
@LadyFi · 1:54
Well, at least I know what I wanted. He knew what he wanted, and we just decided to go for it, to become a couple. And eventually we got married. So, yeah, this is very interested. I want to hear what happened because obviously this is in your past, so something happened. But thank you for sharing this part. I can't wait for part four
J.L. Beasley
@Her_Sisu · 4:56
Yes. Because he is the man. He is the provider. If anything, it should have been him driving the direction of even if he was moving into the home that I secured, it should have been him driving the narrative of what that looked like to make it his home. Okay, there's nothing I don't see anything wrong with the man moving in with a woman. But it was how it was done. I would have confidently looked at him and said, oh, hell, no
Evelyn Phipps
@LadyFi · 0:35
Now, I know you already know that, but I love the fact that you explained this in depth, because if there are other people out there listening, and I know that they are, they understood that perfectly
