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J.L. Beasley
@Her_Sisu · 8:59

A wildly outlandish proposal…

Or they might say, well, I've met a few good people, intimate relationships, non intimate relationships, but they tend to do this and they tend to do that. It's like they start off negative, but they got to end it with something or they start off positive, I should say, but they got to end it with something negative. And I'll comment, hey, we're trying to keep this positive

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@SeekingPlumb

@Her_Sisu

I love the idea of the wildly outlandish proposal. I really do. I came across an Instagram post the other day that really put a visual to this concept that stuck with me. So it was a mother talking with her daughter, and they had a glass bowl in front of them full of water. And the mother takes a juice box and squeezes is some dark colored juice into the bowl. And that dark colored juice taints the entire thing. It becomes cloudy and you can't see much of anything
@Her_Sisu
J.L. Beasley
@Her_Sisu · 3:32

@SeekingPlumb

Let me look further into let me dive in more. Let me keep pushing past this feeling of discomfort or whatever was triggered inside of me from what this other person has done, not done, said or not said that I can keep going forward. And it was interesting that I saw that Instagram post
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Swell Team
@Swell · 0:15

Welcome to Swell!

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@Her_Sisu

Accountability and responsibility, but the same time acknowledging what is out of our hands. I think so often in today's society, we talk about, like, you can do anything, you can fix everything, whether it's your mental health, your physical health, whatever
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Angela Kaye
@AnngieKaye · 4:44
I remember talking to someone about death and preparing for death, even in the loss of my sister, and the person is like, I don't want to talk about that. That's morbid. And that's fine. They think it's morbid. I think, well, wouldn't it be better to know you left money behind? Like my sister left money behind for her daughter? Wouldn't it be good to know that? But the person doesn't want to talk about death, so fine
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