gungun bansal
@gungunbansal_ · 1:45
🏡What do you think about living independently in the phase of adulthood?
I will always be grateful for my parents because of their presence in my life but they have given me everything they can and they always will be and I'm staying apart from them doesn't mean I don't love them but it's just a phase of my life which I won't do handle on my own
Sejal Sharma
@Sejal_Sharma · 1:58
However, after some time there might be this feeling of loneliness and homesickness. And I think even if you moved away from time to time, you should keep in touch with your parents and the rest of your family so that you don't feel alone and your parents don't feel alone and you don't miss each other too much for you to feel like it was a bad decision and regret your life choices. But otherwise I think I completely agree with you. Thanks for sharing
gungun bansal
@gungunbansal_ · 0:48
Hi Sajjan. I hope you're doing good and thank you so much for coming here and sharing your view regarding the same, it's really helpful that you guys also feel the same. I'm not the only one and like we are on the same boat, I would say. And yes, I would really appreciate the point you mentioned here. And one thing I really love that we should stay connected
Kavya
@Kavya._gopal · 3:41
But staying at home shouldn't stifle your growth or your individuality, or your quest for who you want to be given considerable limitations, like you shouldn't harm others. All of that is there. But if there is no space at home, if you feel completely stifled, it is better to move away, of course. But if you can negotiate with your parents, if you can communicate openly, if you have an understanding, it is very possible to stay at home and be independent
Manalika Das
@Manalika · 3:30
Hi. Gon, gon. First of all, I really love this topic. And secondly, according to my point of view, I think it depends upon the culture, to be honest. I mean, yeah, at this particular age, everybody thinks that, oh, I want to live, you know, in my own own space, at my own house and whatever. But actually, there's a reason why we think like that
gungun bansal
@gungunbansal_ · 0:35
Hi Kavya. I hope you're doing great. And thank you so much for coming here and sharing your view. It really means a lot to me. And you have Actually, like noted on the Pros and Cons. It really, really meant a lot to me. Like those who are considering such kind of situation. They can listen to you. They can listen to your reply. And it's very, very helpful
gungun bansal
@gungunbansal_ · 0:58
And yes, as a newsman, we have seen a lot of people coming out from the houses, leaving their parents behind to do something in their life. But they end up having homesickness, being alone, a number of expenditure, they are feeling guilty about it. So you made it a very real, very good point. I want to mention here
gungun bansal
@gungunbansal_ · 0:45
They are allowed to come to my place. We will spend holidays together. So these kind of little promises makes us rely on each other's shoulder. And I know the feeling of coming out on your own is extremely good and everyone is possible should experience it. Thank you so much, Vanuata, for coming here
Samreen Afsana
@sana.afsana · 5:00
Hey. Hi. I found this really interesting topic here on Swell and I thought I should really reply on this. Living with parents and away from them are two complete different worlds. While we live independently, we are the owners of alive. We do everything we want, we do everything what we feel right and nobody's going to stop us. And everything is in our control. We feel we are capable of doing many things
प्रकाश मिश्रा
@lightnotes · 3:49
And I would say we would definitely need critics also around us. Parents are one of them, but it's very rare that we take them very seriously. And yes. So it's better to move away from the shelter of your parent when you grow up in your life and have your own way of thinking, instead getting influenced. But that doesn't mean that definitely you have your responsibilities around. Them. You can better. You can still manage their old age better
gungun bansal
@gungunbansal_ · 0:26
Hi, Olivia. I totally agreed with the point that these kind of changes will be more empirical, more efficient in the first half of our life or the first phase of our life when we are really young. Like in the teenager when 1718, when we actually complete our school. So that would be an appropriate age to leave the parents and live independently. Thank you so much for coming here and joining in this conversation. I really appreciate your efforts