You narcissism. Please protect yourself. What is narcissism? People that are emotionally abusive to their wife or spouse, their children, is the lack of self awareness and empathy for other people. They are manipulative or have controlling behavior. The narcissistic person may not be able to support their partner or show genuine emotions. Any love given by them is only for their own benefit. They make you feel as you are not good enough. Their love is superficial