But the problem with me, with them is they so up their a** and their whole f****** ego that they don't really like to help. They don't even come around and visit my great grand grandmother. The only time they come and visit my great great grandmother is when they got to bring something to her or they have something for her or a special occasion. And it's not just my cousins. It's basically the whole family
J.L. Beasley
@Her_Sisu · 2:25
Hey, it's JL. Sometimes it's helpful to get those things off our chest, right when you have a situation where it's leaving you feeling some type of way and you're trying to figure out how to process it and move forward
And it definitely sounds like you are focused on what matters and that's the family. And one thing that's going to help you is these experiences you're having have the potential to teach you how to not be. We cannot oftentimes change how others choose to be, but through the process of awareness and observation how other people treat us, we can either choose to mimic it or avoid it