And this is a whole other person that you just brought to this social meeting with no warning, but because you think that you are one, that that's okay. So then you've got the chemistry of maybe I don't actually get along with your partner. Or maybe this particular social meeting that we constructed wasn't appropriate for three people
Women cannot be respected for having multiple partners because it's too easy for them, where with men, it's more of a challenge. So I thought that was interesting. Matter of fact, it was Andrew Tate who said, I thought that was very interesting. I do want to hear, why did you leave polyamory for monogamy? What made you go back? Yeah, this is an awesome post. This is very interesting. So, yeah, peace out. You take tips
Georgie Dee
@GeorgieDee · 4:50
Loving and sexual relationships outside of my friendship with him. Then he's not going to be looking to me for that sexual connection. So it's easier for me. I also have friendships with a lot of my ex boyfriends who I haven't been sexually involved with for decades and that is often a challenge for people in society. So they go, what did their wife think of that? Or what does their new girlfriend think of that?
Aayan Banerjee
@BasTalk · 4:52
But let's keep that conversation argument aside. At the end of it all, the thing that I follow is the www, which means whatever works. If it works for somebody to be polyamorous, that's just fine. If it helps somebody to be monogamous, that's fine as well. The trouble is we live in a construct of a society where the people are conditioned for years to believe a certain way of life and the moment anybody contradicting that is generally misperceived
Georgie Dee
@GeorgieDee · 0:31
Absolutely. Absolutely. Nobody wants to die unhappy, but nobody wants to live unhappily either. And people do because they buy into a presupposition that society has provided for the it's about education, learning and asking questions. Right. Opening yourself up to possibilities in life. I totally respect other people's choices, and I'm seeking respect for my choices as well
I guess if you have that sort of relationship where it's like, hey, I don't enjoy sex anymore, but you can go off and do your thing. Just make sure you wrap it up. I do want to say I think it's a beautiful thing that women can feel comfortable expressing themselves sexually. Women, they shame women. Men shame women. So women, you guys get a pretty bad but for us guys, I mean, we can be perverted. It's acceptable
Georgie Dee
@GeorgieDee · 4:29
But don't think for a second that I didn't enjoy my sexuality throughout my entire life. And you could say to me, okay, how long is the longest monogamous relationship that you had? Georgie D. Well, if you're talking living with a guy and being monogamous and exclusive, it was four years. However, I have friendships that span 30 years, 20 years, 25 years, 35 years
Georgie Dee
@GeorgieDee · 0:23
Oh, addendum, I hope that you didn't feel I was criticizing your pronunciation. I hope you didn't feel that. And if you did, I'm sorry, because I don't ever want people to feel that I'm criticizing the way they speak. I'm so happy that you jumped on this swell to engage with me. I think that's amazing, and I think we're having a great conversation. So yeah. Apologies if I made you feel that way, man
J.L. Beasley
@Her_Sisu · 4:46
I actually sat him down and said, listen, you're creating a life of chaos, frustration for you, and it's also shifting off to me. Why don't you just be honest with yourself? Because then when you're honest with yourself, you can be honest with me. And then we can create our marriage how we want it to be. We don't have to do it how society says. And I was like, you know you love this woman
J.L. Beasley
@Her_Sisu · 4:47
Continuing. So I continued in these series of engagements entanglements with men on a monogamous front, and it has not felt authentic for me. And these relationships have not been successful for me. Eventually, they end up getting on my nerves. Eventually, I end up getting on their nerves eventually. There are moments where I just simply want I'm an introvert. I mask extrovert well, A-K-A ambi vert. But I am a true introvert. And when I want to spend time with you, I do
Hey, thank you for replying back. Oh, no, it's all good. I was laughing my d*** self. So no feelings hurt over here or it's no hurt feelings over here. It's all good. Peace out