But yes, if you cannot walk away physically, then mentally, emotionally, you'll have to detach yourself. It doesn't come easily. But once you realize that your peace of mind is more important than anything else, you will make an effort to do it. And it will be possible. It can be done. Fourthly, let your goodness remain intact
Hello, ma'am. Good evening to you. Thank you so much for this. Well, and thank you for so much, so much for touching this very important topic of toxic people. Because I have seen from my experience that it's very difficult to distinguish who is toxic, who is nontoxic. And at times, people try to influence our thinking. You know, they say, why not you do it, Yar, why don't you come for the. The movie?
Ranjana Kamo
@Gamechanger · 0:53
But then you have to detach yourself mentally and emotionally from such people, which is difficult to do. But it is not impossible. I mean, it takes time. It takes effort. So, yes, you're very right. They can be very close to us. So, yes, thank you so much for your feedback. And I love yourselves and look forward to yourselves too. Bye
Himanshi Thakur
@GreyMatter · 2:23
Hello, Ranjana. Ma'am, thank you for posting this. Wonderful and enlightening. You know, I have had a few encounters with toxic people, too. And I was too naive to understand that, you know, they are being toxic and manipulative. I had to cut some of my closest friends out because of this very reason that they had turned eventually extremely toxic. And especially when I was not at fault and I suffered because of them. I had gone through a phase of misanthropy
Ranjana Kamo
@Gamechanger · 1:36
Never be afraid to do it again. And never feel bad about having done that because you owe it to your own peace of mind and happiness and that should be the top priority for all of us anyway. So I never regret. I never regret having to cut off people from my life who are feeding on it like a parasite because it's always an excess baggage. And why carry excess baggage when you can travel light through life? So I think, don't regret having done that, Himanshi
But it's not an act of kindness. It is an act of stupidity. And until or unless we realize the toxicity of people, it's really very hard to overcome it and keep moving. So you really put it in a straightforward way. And I always believe telling no, having that courage to say no is always important because no is just a two letter word. But the kind of impact it has, the kind of limitations or limits that set with those two words is really commendable
Ranjana Kamo
@Gamechanger · 0:38
Thank you, Gauri. Thank you for going through my swell and taking the time to respond. I'm glad that you found it useful. And I am also glad that you agree with what I have mentioned. Yes. These toxic people, they are around us and just eating on our kindness and goodness. They're just like parasites. And they are feeding on it, on our goodness. So thank you so much for getting back. Have a lovely evening. Bye