You're not a saint. But you want your peace of mind, and you want a clean slate for your future. You want a happier future. And anything blocking you from being happy in your future needs to be removed. You cannot hurt yourself and expect the person who has hurt you to feel the pain. That's not going to happen. When you hurt, you feel the pain. The person who has hurt you will not get hurt by your pain
Good morning. Thank you for a wonderful swell. You totally write. Forgiving is important, not for the other person. It's important for you. For you to close the chapter and move on. And like you said, it's not always easy, but to move on it is necessary. Personally, I struggled with this concept a lot, like I did realize at a very young age. Fortunately, that, you know, holding a grudge or not forgiving someone does not actually hurt the person
Ranjana Kamo
@Gamechanger · 0:32
Thank you, Payal, for responding and taking the time to go through the swell. Thank you for your support. And I completely agree. You know, it's so difficult, but we have to do it for ourselves. And I'm so glad that you have been able to do that because it's not easy. It's a very tough and challenging task. But if you can manage it, it's great. Thank you so much for sharing your perspective. Have a lovely day. Bye
Swati Sharma
@Swatiselflove · 2:20
Because if we keep on dwelling in the past, if we keep on getting hooked to those negative experiences in our life all the time, it's not going to help us. It's never going to serve us anywhere. It's not going to help us lead a far more fulfilling and a more meaningful life. So we have to learn to find that detachment from the past or from those people who have been so very toxic in our life
Ranjana Kamo
@Gamechanger · 0:31
Thank you so much, Swati, for your beautiful and kind words. I'm so glad that you agree with what I have to say. And you're always so supportive and kind, and thank you so much for your perspectives. And you're so right when you say that, you know, we cannot live in the past, and we have to move ahead. And thank you so much for always coming up with your views and always being so supportive. Thank you so much
Well, I think these are just questions that are going in my mind, but whatever it is, I think that's getting ahead of myself. I think the first step in all of this, like, is I think to forgive is to get to a place where I'm calm, get to a place where I'm here, I'm healing. And I know forgiveness is a process, and I think that's what I've discovered over life as well
Ranjana Kamo
@Gamechanger · 0:56
Thank you candy for responding and I'm glad that this swell helped you. I wish you all the best and I wish you are able to take the right decision. A true friend will never hurt you. And if somebody who is a culprit starts behaving like a victim, then that is definitely a case of gaslighting
Love relationship, siblings have friends, emotionally move on but slowly slow TikTok sequence may upke Saturday emotions or sometimes this kill here emotions honey to express Kibai there is no father, no one understands your love. And though I think one of my friend was like that friendly mother Jobitabo muji pohati time lakhtabai each and every day I used to remember the whole sequence and then closer nimilta realization. The best way I find out do what you want to do and what you love to do
Ranjana Kamo
@Gamechanger · 0:29
Thank you so much for sharing your perspective or emotional forgive me. Forget Karnato impossibly Ojatai but then hame aghe bharnakile stagnant Rejangi. So thank you so much for sharing your views. Take care. Bye
Neha Dondapati
@neha_97 · 1:05
A good way to forgive someone is to claim your energy back. Yes, it is important to feel the pain, because it is purifying your energy, your soul and everything. But once you do that, and you choose not to dwell on it no longer, any longer, then you can shift your focus on your life, on the things that really matter. And that can, you know, that can abstinate
Ranjana Kamo
@Gamechanger · 0:35
Thank you so much, Neha, for sharing this with us. And this is such a beautiful perspective that, you know, if you reclaim your energy, focus on your life, then you will no longer be holding on to the hurt or even the regret that you might be having. So the way to move on is to, you know, just focus on your life. And I think that's a beautiful point. Thank you so much for sharing it with us. Have a good evening