Hello friends. This is Ranjana Gamu and I'm here with a new topic today. One mistake that nobody forgets and you can hear a lot of ambient noise, I'm sure, and that proves that I'm not a robot. I am somebody who's trying her best to record a podcast in the natural surroundings. This. So please bear with me till I come up with a studio of my own which is soundproof right now
Anurag Singh
@its_me_patel_ · 0:38
Hi there. It's just like breaking the glass into pieces and gluing it again and again and again, but it can never be the same. Okay, so mistakes happens with everyone. And we need to understand everyone as well, that we are not a robot anymore. We are a human. And we. And we are also one that can correct the mistake as well. So I always suggest, forgive, forget, and move with the flow. And thank you so much
Ranjana Kamo
@Gamechanger · 0:14
You. I think that's the best advice. Forgive, forget and move with the flow. Thank you so much for sharing your views and taking the time to go through the podcast. Have a lovely evening. Bye
Meenu Kaur
@tailored979 · 4:07
Hi, Ranjana. Good evening. And I can well relate with the topic which you have taken because I have faced such a situation. And I know. I mean, you do one mistake and that becomes the saga. Because I have been going through this and. And the most painful thing in the world is this. Because see, no one makes the mistake on purpose. We all are humans and it is rightly said, no to her is human. And to forgive is divine
preethy uthup
@peeli · 4:57
And actually, it used to bog me down a lot. But now what I do is, if that's not agreeable to me, I tell them, well, you can have a laugh out of it, but I'm not very happy on that point of it. And that stops that laugh from all of them. And what I feel is that some things, they may not understand why I did it or how I did it and what was the reason to it
Ranjana Kamo
@Gamechanger · 1:02
And I'm very glad that you took a stand for yourself because that is so important in needs a lot of courage, it needs a lot of strength and to do that for yourself, I think it's the best thing that you can do and I'm glad you did that and you are feeling good about it now and since it's all in the past and things have changed for you, that is wonderful to know and I'm so glad for you and happy for you and also proud because it takes a lot of effort to do that
Ranjana Kamo
@Gamechanger · 1:15
Thank you Priti, for taking the time to go through the podcast and respond. And yes, you have given a beautiful version of this topic and I am really glad that you are speaking up and not taking the people making fun of that mistake as normal and you're not taking it lying down. And that is good, because unless we speak up, I don't think people really understand that they are hurting us in some way
Swati Sharma
@Swatiselflove · 3:01
And if they commit any kind of mistake in their family or household, they will always be looked down upon. They will always be reprimanded. They'll always be reminded of their mistakes. So it happens with, there is a difference of class. There is this class which believes that we must learn to forgive and forget and just move on. And there is this another category of people or kind of a social upbringing which makes them understand that the weaker one always has to be dominated
Ranjana Kamo
@Gamechanger · 1:53
I also feel that it could be an inferiority complex which is leading to such behavior, or probably some kind of complex that is making them behave the way that they do, that they have to hold on to one topic or one incident and then keep harping about it because it's very strange that they don't get bored of it. I mean, I would get bored. So, yeah, maybe. And probably the mindsets are such that they cannot grow out of it
So when I just look at these kind of statements, I have lots of puzzles in my mind. The puzzles are when, you know, someone is so good at things and when they make one mistake, how are you judging that person based on the mistake, not based on the achievements or the great things that they did. It is because we are much attracted by the negativity rather than the positivity which can be really understood by all of us
Himanshi Thakur
@GreyMatter · 3:12
And I think this is not a noble thing. Maybe I am too harsh that way. But I struggle with this. I can talk about it over here. I can openly admit it, that I struggle with this, too. Yeah, it's complicated. It's not easy for me to explain it or to think about it. I don't have any theory, any idea, any perspective about it. It's just how I am
Ranjana Kamo
@Gamechanger · 0:41
Thank you Gauri, for sharing your valuable feedback. Yes, you're absolutely right. I think, you know, people are more focused on that one negative aspect rather than looking at all the positive aspects or the positive achievements that a person may have. So I think human mindset is probably more biased towards all the negativity like you mentioned, and that could be one reason. Yes. So you are absolutely right in saying that it takes a second to destroy all the good that you've done
Ranjana Kamo
@Gamechanger · 1:46
Thank you, Himanshi. Thank you so much for sharing this new perspective on the topic. And I totally agree with you that if there is a grave mistake, if there's something like a betrayal or something serious, then obviously you cannot give it up. But then you're going to walk away from that relationship. You'll never meet that person. So the chances of you repeating that mistake, ah, repeating that incident to that person would be either zero or minimal
Himanshi Thakur
@GreyMatter · 2:43
I told them nicely. I remember telling them nicely, politely, that you need to get the details right, but I never reprimanded them. I think it is all the teaching process, right? We all are learning. We all are teaching each other. We are learning from each other. So thank you for putting this out, because the last thing that we should do is to judge negatively someone or to mock somebody. I think that is not even the last thing that we should do
Ranjana Kamo
@Gamechanger · 0:27
That's wonderful to know, Himanshi. And you always come up with your own stories, which is very. It adds so much authenticity to what you say, and it's very heartwarming. So thank you so much. It's always a pleasure to listen to you. Have a lovely day. Bye