If you are going out for a meal with some friends or family or some other relations, it is good not to order the expensive dishes on the menu if someone else is paying for them. If somebody has lent you money, it is good to return the money without that person having to ask for it. And very important point, people ask such awkward questions like, why are you still single? Why haven't you had any babies till now? What is your salary? What is your age?
Swati Sharma
@Swatiselflove · 1:41
And this talks a lot about what kind of values you have inherited, what kind of upbringing you have received from your parents. So these are the small, small values that we can leave behind as a legacy for our children. So whatever we want to preach, we must learn to practice in front of our younger lord, younger generation. That's so very important. So thank you so much for reminding us of all these valuable gestures that we need to incorporate in our everyday life. And God bless
Ranjana Kamo
@Gamechanger · 0:52
And definitely, we must bring them back, like I mentioned. And thank you so much. Thank you so much for your feedback. And it's always great listening to you. Have a lovely weekend. Bye
Swell Team
@Swell · 0:15
So thank you so much, Ranjana for taking your time and helping us out to look at ourselves and understand whether we are following these habits or not. Thank you
Hello ranjana ma'am, I wish you first of all a very happy lori and thank you for this. Well, I think these some points, all the points that you have talked about are such, so relevant and one point which I think is now something which I have stopped doing, you know why I would just keep looking at my phone and I have realized that I should not be doing this
Ranjana Kamo
@Gamechanger · 0:19
Thank you. Gauri. Thank you so much for taking the time to listen to my swell and respond. I'm so glad that you agree. And you're absolutely right. These things will really help us in all spheres of our life. Thank you so much. Bye
Ranjana Kamo
@Gamechanger · 0:50
Thank you Kadambari and happy Lori to you as well. Thank you so much for listening to my swear and taking the time to respond. I'm so glad that you agree, and you're absolutely right. People ask such personal questions that they really hurt you, and after a while you really start getting angry at them. And and you reach a point when you start laughing also because you get just fed up of these personal questions or personal remarks that people make without realizing what they're doing
preethy uthup
@peeli · 4:53
Hi, Ranjana. It's so nice that you took a topic like this because there are many things, you know, over the course of time, people have forgotten or tried to be cool by not saying things in a different way as such. So there are many things which are so important and so nice. It shows that we respect the other person. It's basically all these courtses drip down to one part of the thing that I respect you, I love you, I care for you
Ranjana Kamo
@Gamechanger · 1:25
I think that I'll keep in mind that it is because of their insecurities that they are behaving like this. And I like your point of view that you just ignore such people. They will learn on their own. I think that's a beautiful thought. So thank you so much. I agree with you. I'll have to bring another one because there are so many points that I realized that I missed out from this
So that's where I realized that and picked up some other healthy, good habits, like, good, respectful habits, like holding doors for other people as I've grown older. So definitely that's something all. So that you receive it from a lot of different places, not just family. So that's very interesting. So thank you once again, Ranjana and I think this is definitely a lot of people should probably listen to this. And it's just little things
Ranjana Kamo
@Gamechanger · 0:54
Thank you so much, Candy. And I really liked what you said in the end, that it doesn't take much to be a good, kind human being. And I think that is the key point, because these are all little things that if we can imbibe in our habits and our manners, then we are definitely a good human being. And these habits are dying down. I don't know what's wrong with people. I really don't know what's happening