And next thing you know, I'm seeing her breast and I thought she was in a relationship. She told me she was married, so I was confused, like, why was she sending me the photo? I just want you to see how my breasts looked. And I'm like, oh, okay. And then there was another time where I had been sit and unsolicited not so much a photo, but as like, how should I say this? Dirty talk
Shaniqua Murrell
@wayuphigh · 2:34
And he was not taking it down, and the FBI had to challenge him to take the site down. It was really crazy how they do that. But I just block people immediately if I ever get something like that, because it always seems to come so early on in the interactions before I really know you or you really know me. And I understand that some people think that by doing that, that will endear somebody to them. It won't. If you think that, that's insane
Dewuan .
@FryedOreo · 4:37
But of course the risk of doing that now, you can get in jail for that or get registered as a sex offender for that. So yeah, I don't know if it's going to determine completely, but I think I grew up in the time of social media where I was at the start of it all. I kind of went through all those phases of it to where I really only started doing online dating, like maybe a couple of years ago, two or three years ago
Shaniqua Murrell
@wayuphigh · 3:12
No, I don't have any conflicts like that. That's really crazy. I don't know anybody who's got a d*** pic from their family member. That is insane. I've never had that situation. It's always people who have met on dating sites, which is why I stopped it doing that. I think the last time that I was on a dating site was 2020 when everybody was on the dating site because nobody could go outside
Dewuan .
@FryedOreo · 4:14
You understand patterned behavior where you're not going to let it happen more than once. And you know where the source worse of it is? You cut it off. You're good. I will keep fighting the wars of online dating so you don't have to. All right. But thanks for responding
Shaniqua Murrell
@wayuphigh · 3:42
And that is all. It all plays a part in attraction. So when mental talk to women or don't talk to women, it triggers for me. Is there an issue of confidence here? Because that's something that's going to make this person less attractive and that's going to make me less interested in talking to them. I love talking about dating. It's a lot of fun
Dewuan .
@FryedOreo · 5:00
Yes, I'm a big fan of talking about dating as well, especially my experience. I like to be very candid and vulnerable with my experiences, and I used to kind of document it here on Swell. Might have to do it again