We are talking about those decisions we make, knowing the consequences, if we were to be honest, that we decide to lie instead. Do good people do that? Or is it only the bad people that decide to lie? I'm wondering, should I answer this for you? But you're a grown a** adult, so you could figure it out on your own. But we could talk about it. H***, you could even lie to me
Renee Slay
@Renee_Slay · 1:09
Like what you're talking about calling into work, saying you're sick when you're not. Is that a white lie? Because it could have consequences. So I think I would need more information on what you perceive as as a consequential lie. I guess so I think it's a matter of perception, but I think everybody lies at one point or another and and sometimes frequently, but gap you want to share a little more about what you're what type of maybe an example?
Dewuan .
@FryedOreo · 2:28
There's omission of lies. So by you not giving the information because it's not asked, that could be considered a lie to some, at least to the court of law. Um, yeah. It's really up to you, though, how you perceive it. So that's how you perceived it. Just white lies. Everybody lies, and they tell white lies. Like, is there something in my teeth? Or does my breast stink?
Renee Slay
@Renee_Slay · 1:55
I'm not a white lie, and if lying at biomission is okay and it goes into a whole moral thing, I believe, or for me it would, but in general, I know some really good people that will tell some white lies. So, yeah, I think everybody does. It doesn't make them bad, but
Dewuan .
@FryedOreo · 4:26
And I myself, I would consider I have some good qualities, but I have some bad qualities as well. Some but some qualities people wouldn't really appreciate about myself. But we all do, right? I'm a work in progress. Every other day in the dating world, I'm questioning, should I be dating? Should I instead focus on benchmarks of my life to where once I reach this goal, then I date
Renee Slay
@Renee_Slay · 3:58
But they'll have me questioning, putting that doubt in. Like you said, if I'm wrong, if I'm just not perceiving it, right? And that's crazy because of the empath thing, right? But they're just so good at it. You question yourself. It's insane. It's absolutely insane. I wanted to touch too, on the whole waiting to date thing, because you have your goals that you're trying to achieve and whatever, right?
Tanya Coles
@MsColes77 · 2:18
You. I believe that everybody has a tendency to lie. I believe that it's intrinsic. We have to learn how to be honest, and we have to practice being honest, but we don't have to practice being a liar. And so do good people lie? Yeah, I believe that good people with good hearts and good intentions lie. Now it really comes down to people's reasoning for lying. Some people believe that there are protecting others when they lie
Dewuan .
@FryedOreo · 1:35
It, renee it's inescapable. Invariably, when you meet somebody, you are going to inflect or in. You are going to intentionally display a side of you, perhaps that is you. But over the course of a time of a person getting to know you, they may realize, oh, that's before I knew this m*********** was crazy. Which, by the way, I am not. I am many things, but crazy occasionally
Dewuan .
@FryedOreo · 2:05
But, yes, I feel the greatest of people still lie because it's a human condition. And sometimes you can look deeper into yourself and try to figure out why are you lying? And hopefully you can come to some sort of resolution, but even then, you still can run the course of not truly understanding why you are the way you are. So thank you, Tanya, for being honest with us on this swell cast
Patrick Derns
@patasd101 · 1:06
You. Hello, my name is Patrick, and I'm responding to your swell. Do or can good people lie? Well, my mother was very good. My mother was my mentor. My mother was everything to me. And I remember as children, we were growing up, if somebody knocked on our front door, her response, if she was busy, always was, tell them I'm not here. Or if the phone rung, she would say, tell them I'm not here
Renee Slay
@Renee_Slay · 3:01
I'm totally not going to kick you in the nuts, you crazy m***********. I'm sorry. I just had to say it. Okay, so women that are exposed to these men, right, that are habitual liars
Dewuan .
@FryedOreo · 0:54
I'm only human after all I'm only human after all don't put the blame on me that probably might not win in your favor, but at least they'll chuckle a bit at your sinking skills. Such an opportune moment of discovery
Dewuan .
@FryedOreo · 1:09
And it seems as if the more you lie, the more of a prospect you look like, because if you're honest and it really seems that way, no one wants that, right? No one wants somebody that safe and ordinary that they just don't stand out. You got to lie to some degree to put yourself out there. So that's what I will start doing. Wish me luck
Is propaganda considered a good lie if it's used by good people? Oh, man, you just gave me an idea, Bro. For my next well, I'm going to have to do some research on here to make sure nobody has I got to make sure nobody touched the subject that I'm thinking about doing. But yeah, you gave me a new topic to talk about. I'm going to double check on here to see if you or anybody else hasn't touched this topic
Renee Slay
@Renee_Slay · 1:49
And you end up in this whirlwind relationship full of f****** lies. And women eventually find out everything comes out in the wash. And when it comes out, then you've hurt her and she's going to hurt you and it just can't end. Well. Don't be a p****, please. Just be the good guy and the right good girl will come along. But just remember that we want effort. And you want effort too
