I know I've talked about this subject before on Swell but I would just be curious now with a bunch of new faces what would you consider of this diagram? I have posted the benefits and the cons of each of these particular types of people and also what type do you feel they you are now and what type do you want to aspire to be?
Renee Slay
@Renee_Slay · 2:45
You. Hey, it's Renee Slay. I have been I've been both passive and aggressive. Not as much as I get older and kind of evaluate myself more and have more examples of what I would like to be around me, then that kind of guides me because I grew up where aggression was a thing, right? Aggression on one part, on my dad's part, and the whole passive, completely passive thing on my mom's part
Dewuan .
@FryedOreo · 3:49
So for me, I definitely feel I'm aggressive, especially on Swell when it comes to my point of view and how I like to present topics. And I even had a scenario a couple of days ago where a person set boundaries and said, hey, if you're trying to debate, that's not what this is about. And I did not intend to try to debate, but I offered opposing views to a topic
Swell Team
@Swell · 0:15
Luce Fonrose
@ilovelucee · 4:09
And then passive aggressive, that one really gets on my nerves because it's like you say what you say or you do what you do, but you're not standing on it, if that makes sense. Like, you're not being bold about what you have to say or what you have to do. You're doing it in a very annoying, sneaky way. And I feel like that's grounds for conflict
Dewuan .
@FryedOreo · 3:13
It's like they're cool with you, but then they'll say something that kind of feels a little slanted towards you and you're like, okay. And the thing that would kill me is when people say things like, you know what? No, I'm not going to say it. And they won't say it, and I'm like, what? It's so weird. But anyway, thank you so much and I'm glad you got enjoyment out of this
Renee Slay
@Renee_Slay · 4:45
We're gaining education perspective, which is awesome. I think we're okay. And like I said, I'm working on because I can be a neck bobbin head snap back real quick, can't hide it because it's all over my face and my body language is screaming, what did you say? But I'm going to learn that breath. I'm going to learn that space, that pause
Luce Fonrose
@ilovelucee · 2:56
Hi. No problem. It's loose. But I've been called Luce and Lucy many times and my name on here is I Love Lucy, but it's just loose. You make a very good point. I didn't even think about that. How at one point, we all or sometimes we do kind of fit into all of those things, all of those different categories. Because you just brought up sarcasm and I didn't think about that. But I could be very sarcastic
Dewuan .
@FryedOreo · 3:11
It I maybe even gotten dumped a few times because of it, but I just tend to know what I know and like what I like and I just say it right away. But yeah, I think you bring up a great point in regards of what type of aggressions there are and how it can be mild and tame, but for some people it can be very uncomfortable to where they just don't really want that energy around them
Dewuan .
@FryedOreo · 2:27
In particular, I was supposed to be the caretaker of the building and I had an interview set up and first they flaked on my interview and then the second one they just decided to leave. It was like a holiday, so they just decided to leave the office. So I just ended up saying screw them and hopefully I can move out soon. But anyway, all that being stated, I wonder loose were you very confrontational? Were you cussing people out?