D***, that's hard, man. I can't do it. I got to be me. Now. It's not to say that everything that comes out of my mouth is toxic. And I guess some people out there like, wait a minute now. I think you're on to something here, because your a** is truly toxic. No, I'm not toxic. You just don't want different perspectives. You only want a certain perspective and that's it
This is such an interesting perspective because there is such a difference between being nice and being kind and saying things to be mean and telling the truth. I think you have to go back to your intention behind the words, is it to hurt someone or is it to help someone? Someone. That's the big thing. Someone comes up to me and says that my a** looks big in this. If it does, I'm going to say, yeah, I think so
Dewuan .
@FryedOreo · 4:36
But if I say, Excuse me, there's a wolf back behind you there, I just thought I would say, but I don't know if you don't have to take my advice. I don't know how you feel about your life. You'd be like what? What are you talking about? So context does matter, but feelings is optional to respect. So I'm not the guy that's going to make the message fluffy and nice for you because your feelings are in the picture
Swell Team
@Swell · 0:15
Dewuan .
@FryedOreo · 4:23
But it's interesting how with the truth, because I think with truth, we have to take into account that there are a lot of lies out there and a lot of lies in what people consider to be true. So those who seek to step outside of that lie and tell the truth, you can be met with criticism. Why? Because a lot of the people are in the lie. They're in the hive mind
Berotte Jean berty
@Berty97 · 2:03
Hey ou thanks for sharing I was listening first the other reactions and I think they have mind like if you have nothing good to say, you should say nothing I think it's another way to say to shut up, f*** off. Because nobody wants to be perceived as an esso, as you say. But evidently, it's just a matter of context, which is why it's always good to have a good perceptions about ourselves. So not to be lost in what?
Dewuan .
@FryedOreo · 2:28
Hey, Berotte, thank you for taking the time not only to listen to the swell, but to also offer an audio response. And yeah, doing the right thing sometimes is not always the thing that will be the best in your favor. Sometimes doing the right thing will make you look like an a******. But you should always be true to who you are. And sometimes that may cross a few people, but it can't be helped sometimes
Yeah, they may talk behind their backs, but they respect them. And they follow their lead, too. Sometimes you have to be sometimes the truth, man, can hurt come off beam. But it is the truth and the truth hurts
Dewuan .
@FryedOreo · 4:46
But I think there comes a time to where you yourself have to find aspects of yourself that do you like or do you want to change. And it's within that change or that transformation where you can tap into a different energy that will sort of make you not really care so much about certain aspects that you previously had held about your identity yourself. So when we talk about this thing, if you don't have nothing nice to say, don't say it at all