So what is it going on nowadays to where, you know, when you're getting to know someone, that they make that so hard, that they make communication so hard? And not only do they make it hard, they make it out like you're the problem. Okay, let me give you this scenario. Friend of mine is trying to get to know this young lady, right? And they have a supposed mutual interest in each other, okay?
Evelyn Phipps
@LadyFi · 3:11
But, you know, Auntie Ange just did some stuff on dating. And then also, Miss Cole, 77, she did some stuff on dating. So I'm gonna tag them in this and see if they can answer your question, okay?
Ferris Moore
@FeMotivationz · 1:33
You've done it again. Thank you so much, Evelyn, for that response. That's definitely a great response, and I definitely appreciate, you know, your insight and your input on that particular matter. And thank you for tagging Auntie ang and Cole, 77, too, because I was trying to figure out how to tag, like, all of my friends in this, but I don't know. I'm still trying to figure some things out about this Swale app
Tanya Coles
@MsColes77 · 3:46
If you're trying to vet a woman, to gauge and see if she is someone that you want to have a serious relationship with, y'all need to be having verbal conversations and not these text and back and forth conversations. You text when you're talking about light things, such as, what are you doing this weekend? And what kind of food? What's your favorite kind of food? What do you like to do for fun? That's light stuff
Denise Lewis
@myconfettitree3 · 3:14
Hello and good morning. What a great post. I listened to the whole thing, and what I'm getting from this, and I'm gonna give you my two cent on this, is that basically, her mindset is not the same as his. And in the dating world today, there's such a mashup of people with true intentions of wanting to be with someone and have a relationship
Denise Lewis
@myconfettitree3 · 2:24
There's so many people who are catfished, you know, they're just saying all these great things about themselves and, you know, especially, you know, women or men who just think by saying, good morning, beautiful, that, you know, maybe that's all the person needs to think, oh, they're a great guy, but that's. That's not the truth. You know, you don't know somebody
Ferris Moore
@FeMotivationz · 2:47
You know, I would have immediately apologized because I didn't say it to frighten you or whatever the case may be. And as it turns out, they're still talking, so they still rocking, so that's good. It was just a situation where she said that she was actually joking when she said that she wouldn't date a preacher, whatever case, maybe, but he had no way of knowing that she wasn't being serious, you know what I'm saying?
Ferris Moore
@FeMotivationz · 2:21
So it's like she was basically saying, like, out of fear, I made a joke. And it's like, they ain't a time to joke. But anyway, you know, when you're getting to know people and things like that, you get. You have to learn how they move and how they operate, you know, because everybody doesn't do that the same way. So
