Everything Jay
@everythingjay · 5:00
Dating Chronicles: he’s 25 years older 😫
Good morning. Good morning. It is dating chronicle time. So if you haven't checked out my other Dating Chronicle recording, make sure you all go and check that out, let me know about any of your dates and situations, experiences and so forth. So yesterday I decided to go out with this guy I met, and I met him through an older guy that I know. So I met him through the guy I know that is 47
Everything Jay
@everythingjay · 1:54
And there are just so many things that I can't reference with you, so many things I can't talk to you about. And so I don't know you guys. Have you ever dated someone with this large of an age gap? And if you have dated someone body with this large of age gap, has it worked out? And so we're not talking ten years. We're talking 2025 years of a difference. Have you had success with this type of situation? Let me know
Braxxton Brown
@Br33zy · 4:18
Okay, I want to take this post series. Okay. I think the background noise that you are looking for when you heard that, was that's the noise that you were looking for? If you had a background noise in my mind, that's the noise I made when I heard the same thing that you her. That's number one. Number two, I've never dated anybody that large vin age gap
Everything Jay
@everythingjay · 4:35
So for me, I feel like it's so much I missed out on, because I haven't had that relationship yet that I desire where we're going to dress alike and we're going to travel and, like I said, hike and work out together and all that. I haven't had that yet, so I don't really see this being something I can do. Also, the first place that I saw him at was dimmer than the second place
Braxxton Brown
@Br33zy · 4:40
Because then you think about it, it also back then, they also have male doctors and who were writing the books on how the body works, especially on how the woman's body works. And they've never been a female themselves, these same men. So it's just like, weird. It's like women back then took care of everybody. But even if they went to go to the doctor nine times out of ten
Everything Jay
@everythingjay · 4:55
And all this stuff that happened with his divorce, and he says he likes women in their twenty s, and it took several times of communicating with him before I was able to understand his true reasoning for not wanting to date women in their thirty s and forty s. Right? And he's closer to 50 than he is to 40. So this other person that I'm talking about, that's my friend, so I never care
Everything Jay
@everythingjay · 4:00
Women in their 30s usually go up a little bit. So what can I expect from that? I'm at a point in my life where I actually like to do it all the time. So it was so many different things but I guess when you asked me out, I was open to it because I'm not like, a person. Like, oh, you're too, you're old is dirt. Like, I'm not going to talk to you
Braxxton Brown
@Br33zy · 2:15
So yeah, not all of it is attributed to the fact that there is age difference. But let's be real, there are some situations out there where it sounds nice and people give it a try and because they have totally different directions in life and age playing a role, there are situations that kind of end up like that. Oh yeah, this is my husband, he likes to sit outside on the front porch but I'd rather go out to the club on a Saturday night type thing
Braxxton Brown
@Br33zy · 4:14
He's saying he prefer younger women. But no, that's so surface level means if that's what you jump out the gate with, I'm already thinking in the back of my mind, what else is there? And like you said, when you listen to people, you actually get the truth
Braxxton Brown
@Br33zy · 0:29
He needs to do better. He needs to get at least tape some to the top of his head or something. See, don't do that, Mark, because I've already every time she come back and say something, I got more got more to ask. You ain't even right for that. Yeah
Everything Jay
@everythingjay · 4:19
So you mean to tell me that she will have 25 year younger men jumping at the chance to date her at that point in her life? Now, let's flip it to the guy that I'm describing. I see even in his primitive years or even in his prime years, that he wasn't all that much of a catch. And I say this because I've seen older people that I'm like, wow, you're so attractive
Braxxton Brown
@Br33zy · 3:03
Jay, why did I think I responded to this yesterday and I didn't? Okay, the reason why I ask if he is wearing the same hat because that says a lot about someone. He's wearing the same hat because there is definitely an underlying insecurity with him wearing that hat. When it comes to those dreads, he either A, does not get his hair done like he's supposed to and it probably stink under that hat, so I'm just going to keep it a honey