Everything Jay
@everythingjay · 4:57
I think I want to find my father! Has anyone used a DNA site for this?
Like I said, that's my uncle, and it is what it is. Other males in my family, that wasn't the case. Some of them couldn't even be trusted around me, if you get what I'm saying. I've been blessed to have good male friends in my life, to kind of chime in on my dating life or different things in my life, but I've never had anyone family wise
Tanya Coles
@MsColes77 · 0:37
Hey, SIS. I'm tagging another swell Caster named Andrea, who just recently made a post about using those DNA those yeah, those DNA kits to find her birth father. And so, I would love for her to chime in and tell you her story. But also go to her page, go to her swell cast, and you'll see it's titled The Journey to Me. And she will give her entire story of how she found her father through the use of DNA
Everything Jay
@everythingjay · 0:08
Thank you so much. I will definitely check out her page and her story. I really appreciate you trying it in
Andrea Piggue
@Andrea_Speaks · 5:00
But there was a lot of different emotions that I had, but even though there were a lot of different emotions and I'm still working through some emotions, I wouldn't change it for the world. I wouldn't change it for the world. It was one of the best things that I could have done, because it did provide some healing for me. It did provide some closure for me. It did provide some deliverance in some areas for me
Andrea Piggue
@Andrea_Speaks · 4:10
So, yeah, do it. Do it. And I'm here if you need somebody to talk to, whatever. I'm here. I'm definitely rooting for you. I'm praying for you. But do it. By all means, do it. It's going to answer so many questions for you one way or the other. And it'll give you closure more than anything. It'll give you closure, right?
Swell Team
@Swell · 0:15
Everything Jay
@everythingjay · 2:02
So it's one of those situations where I just never felt to push it because I felt like maybe she would tell. Right. I just want her to know that it would never be any judgment towards her in regards to me. But I do feel like my childhood definitely had some favoritism in it with a sibling. And I do feel that I always felt different, always felt different. And so, like you said, I think I'm going to do it
Andrea Piggue
@Andrea_Speaks · 5:00
And I know your situation is different because your mother it's your mother and then your father, and you weren't adopted. I understand. But I just said that because I wanted you to know that I understand where you're coming from. And I can feel the pain and I can feel the apprehension because I can feel the love that you have for your mother
J.L. Beasley
@Her_Sisu · 4:31
So that way there is a dotted line from someone else's tree to that part of your tree once you submit your DNA and your results are made available on the site. But from my understanding, that's how all of those lines come together. I also believe to a degree, you might need some level of investigative services, if you will. I don't have the right terms or names for it