Everything Jay
@everythingjay · 5:00
Lets talk about scam fished! Romance scams
But anyway, so I always found it very intriguing, and I will always look further into those and really try to help coach those people from stopping sending money, not being victims of romance scams. Anywho, I started to watch this show called Scamfish, and it basically is with victims of scam. So a lot of them are elderly people. Majority of them, surprisingly, are already in relationships
Everything Jay
@everythingjay · 2:29
That's not what I'm saying. I'm just saying that I realized that everybody needs different levels of intimacy in order to be satisfied. Because like I said with me, I don't see myself ever being able to romantically connect with someone for years without seeing them, without physically being around them
J.L. Beasley
@Her_Sisu · 4:45
That was very weird to me, which was the fact that people would have these air quotation relationships with people, sometimes locally, sometimes from a distance for months, sometimes even years, and never seeing the person, not even by video chat. When I don't do long distance relationships, quality time is my number one love language, how I like to receive and how I like to give love. Therefore, I have to be close in proximity to the person
Swell Team
@Swell · 0:15
Everything Jay
@everythingjay · 1:31
And I'm supposed to air quotation, be with someone that is similar to to a couple of dating situations that I well, one is current and one is past tense, but it's like we're barely communicating, we're barely making plans to see each other, and then I'm just getting the response that is the same or the response that it's okay. I'm not being asked for anything or anything like that