Everything Jay
@everythingjay · 5:00
Can you change the outcome of being single forever???
It was me getting out so that I can feel like I was the one that ended it, because rejection was hard on me, very hard on me. And so I would attract all these people that just was ones that probably a large percentage of them was comfortable talking to all sorts of women, and it was easy for them to do. And I was one of those women that got caught in that cycle. And later on, I will find out that they were like the player type
Everything Jay
@everythingjay · 4:24
Are some of us just unlucky in that area? Because I don't think it comes down to looks and all of that. I've seen the most attractive people be single and I've seen the most funny looking person be in committed relationships all their life? I don't necessarily think it's looks I don't necessarily think it's things like that. I think some people end up like that. So let me know what you guys think. Is it worth therapy?
Andrea Piggue
@Andrea_Speaks · 4:56
I'm asking God to make me okay with the fact that maybe I'm not going to get another husband. Maybe because I married men that I shouldn't have married in the first place and now divorced. Maybe God doesn't want to give me another husband. Maybe he does it. And I'm asking God to make me okay with that, to make me be at peace with that if that is his decision to make me be at peace with it
Everything Jay
@everythingjay · 5:00
In our relationship, like, in the dating things that I've had, they're not even fighting anymore. So then that started to make me question, like, am I not worth a fight to have something long term? I think I long for it because I never had it. I think at this point in my life, at 33, if I had been married before, I wouldn't be this dead set on it. I think it's because I never had it
Andrea Piggue
@Andrea_Speaks · 5:00
But that goes for everything when we are walking and we are walking in victory, when we are walking in our healing journey, because your healing journey, you'll be on your healing journey until you leave here, right? Because there's always things, god will always bring up things that you didn't even realize was there
Andrea Piggue
@Andrea_Speaks · 2:23
And as you're doing these swells, the different thoughts and the different memories and the different feelings that are coming up, to just write those down. Because those are the things that God wants you to begin to work on so that he can heal you, so that he can make you whole
J.L. Beasley
@Her_Sisu · 4:58
And so I need to figure out what that is. What is the gap and how do I fill and meet that gap? Because here's the thing. I'm about to go deep on you. So God says for Christianity. Excuse me. I'm cleaning up. So there might be a lot of background noise. God says. I think one of the disciples was asking, who are you? One of the people in the Bible. Honey, listen, I'm spiritual, not religious
J.L. Beasley
@Her_Sisu · 2:29
Therefore, most oftentimes we don't believe it, therefore we don't yield it forward. So honey, if you're desiring a mate in your life, continue to do the daily inner work and call that met that man forward, the universe is going to bring him to you. You just got to be ready and have the thought and the mindset. The moment that you start allowing that creep to come in and the creep being, is it even possible? Will it ever happen?