Everything Jay
@everythingjay · 4:09
Dating Chronicles: Excited im learning my attachment style!
The only difference between I feel like my parenting parenting and the one I received is that I worked at it. And I knew how to apologize, and I knew how not apologizing for things that I did or do would cause harm in the future. And so instead yeah, instead, I apologize for me being a young parent and not knowing as much as I know now
Eluchianna Olive
@Luchianna · 4:38
People that you're dating, it should be one that you pick out that might be, oh yeah, I'm interested in you, and then you pursue that one person. But I think as women, sometimes we lose sight of that and we get locked into one particular person and that's who we focus on and that's who we attach ourselves to or we develop those soul ties with and not really leaving ourselves open for options or opportunities. Right?
Renee Slay
@Renee_Slay · 2:38
What I do served me swell as a surviving mechanism in whatever situations in the past. That was my brain's way of saying this is how we survive. Because what we receive from our parents if unhealthy creates unhealthy and it causes us to if suffering some form of neglect in some way or abuse or alcoholism or drug abuse or whatever there is whatever there is unhealthy parents mentally because it all stems from some kind of mental
Everything Jay
@everythingjay · 3:06
Because when I wasn't trying to get to a romantic partner and I was just going on dates for the h*** of it, after I got out of a relationship, I would set the guidelines like hey, I'm just looking for friends, I'm not looking for anything serious. And I wouldn't be like habitually dating. It would just be one person or a few people, like two or three people that I'm talking to