So my question, or questions are, what do you do if you're in love with someone and they're currently in a relationship? Normally people would say, follow your heart. But what if your heart is in direct confliction with your morals? Do you still follow it? Do you suffer in silence? Do you tell this person to f off and just be in their relationship? Do you embrace this person because they're all you ever wanted? It bothers me
Rocío (Ro) Christensen
@rocio · 1:55
I think that's, of course, obviously up to you. But I think it's something to observe that you haven't just gone totally into it, into this. Whatever, this situation with him. And I think that's for a reason. I don't know. It's complex. It's complex, but it sounds like. Like you have some perspective about it. That's important to keep in mind. I think the hesitation kind of says something deeper, but I don't know
Blair Redmond
@blairbearing · 3:58
If you were the woman that he was in a relationship, would you want him to be reaching out to someone else, to maybe another woman like you that was in love with him? And I feel like, were you in love with him or were you in love with the idea of him? Was he actually the person that you needed him to be when you needed him to be there? There's that. I personally would tell him to fuck off and leave me alone
Isoellen Writes
@Isoellen · 4:59
However the relationship end, he now has somebody's new, and he has betrayed you in the most ultimate way by choosing somebody else. You still love him. You. But you're standing at a graveside. Big hugs. I hope this helps. I've been through that, too. This was my experience, anyway
J.L. Beasley
@Her_Sisu · 4:20
If it is not speaking to the God inside of you, which is about loving oneself and respecting oneself, honoring oneself, then it's likely not for you. And with that being said, hopefully that has given you enough information, because I could sit up here and say, oh, girl, this is what I would do. So on and so forth. I'm going to just let you know. You already know the answer
Michelle Murad
@MichelleMurad · 1:00
You. All I can say is I was invited to this as well. Is that how you, how you get them? Is how you lose them? So if you're talking to someone who you love, who's in a relationship, like, what does that can happen to you with this person? I recently got out of a relationship, so I understand. And wanting to be with someone that you love. But when the time is right, you won't question