And I realize that for a lot of people that I know, including myself, once we get into the type of situation where we're enamored and we're so excited, we have the butterflies in our stomach and we're just looking forward to talking to this person, to hearing from this person, to seeing this person. I think a lot of the discernment that we usually have in our daily life goes out the window and we stop even trying to be discerning of the circumstance
Rocío (Ro) Christensen
@rocio · 1:00
Yeah, I've definitely been guilty of looking at certain people through rose colored glasses. And it feels sad in the end, I think, because well, yeah, like you say, maybe you don't discern the things that you really want or that matter to you. And then also, I think you miss out on the opportunity of seeing something real in the other person that maybe you didn't recognize when you were romanticizing or fantasizing
Razan Valle
@dream_curl · 1:37
Exactly. Exactly. Just like you said it. By seeing it through the rose colored glasses, we're not really identifying the realness in the other person and actually enjoying them for who they are and who God or the universe or spirit or whatever you believe in, who made them into them and what they are as they were made to be
Swell Team
@Swell · 0:15
Tori Closson
@soleilnoelle · 4:39
That's the biggest issue here. And that's what I see, too, with a lot of other people that I speak with, is that portion. I just got out of a three year relationship with a wonderful guy on paper, but he's emotionally unavailable. He's just not able to compliment me. My love language is words of affirmations. He's not able to do those things. So it's like, okay, Tori, here we go