@Digitalpenz

When and How Do You Trust Again?

I've known people who have come into my life and have spent a good portion in my life six months to a year. And at some point that same individual that I've shared things with, done things with, they've shared with me, but yet they have decided to ghost or to just drop out of sight for really no apparent reason. But I'm guessing there is a reason, but I didn't know what that reason was in this particular instance

#trustingagain, #aconversation, #levelsoftrust,

@SeekingPlumb

@Digitalpenz

A lot to these questions, because in general, humans, we tend to no human goes about life not lying. No human goes about life not being a hypocrite at some point or another. These are just natural aspects of how we live. And so then it's a matter of, okay, well, this person and their percentage, let's say, of how much they do these things
@Renee_Slay
Renee Slay
@Renee_SlayΒ Β·Β 4:56

@Digitalpenz

I mean, it's a sad spot when something goes on that's major for me. And I need someone to physically be here. Yeah, I can come on here. And because I'm raw and I'm open, I can get support from people that I've talked to on here on this platform. But in life, I don't have anyone
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@Swell
Swell Team
@SwellΒ Β·Β 0:15

Welcome to Swell!

@Digitalpenz

@Renee_Slay

Don't try to water it down as they present. Believe what they're saying to you. Believe what they're showing you. Because in that way, the likelihood of really getting burned is going to be limited, or maybe not at all because of the fact that you're actually seeing they're actually showing you. And so you're not in denial or no one's in denial, so that person can see what's what. Relationships are not easy
@Renee_Slay
Renee Slay
@Renee_SlayΒ Β·Β 1:23

@Digitalpenz

Like, I am not like anyone because of what I've come across, but there are good people out there. I just need to stop giving excuse to people's behaviors because of my own experiences. So thank you. Thank you for replying to me. And thank you for being one of those good people
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