And just because someone's family doesn't mean you have to tolerate lies, chaos, drama, manipulation and disrespect and cutting them off doesn't mean you hate them. You only hate their conditioning. Learn to still love people, but from a distance because hatred in any form poisons your mind. Tell this to yourself. Enough is enough. Toxic behavior shouldn't be tolerated even if it's outside of your bloodline
Erum Ehmad
@Erum · 1:05
Wow. I love the energy in your cast. It really gets the message across. I really felt like encouraged to do that. And I have a lot of people who are toxic narcissistic manipulative, and they just don't see who I am or they don't want to see who I am so they can continue to do what they want. And I recently started standing up for myself and to put a stop to it
Darshini Kumar
@Darshini · 0:18
I'm so happy that you realized the intentions of the people around you. And you're standing for yourself. And I feel really happy. And I wish you all the very best. And I wish you a very peaceful life ahead
Swell Team
@Swell · 0:15
I just hope that we gather that much courage to stand up against them. And at one point, you stated very nicely that we need to love people, but from a distance so that their behavior towards us does not affect us that much, especially mentally, because it's very important because it's one of the major causes of depression and families, because children cannot stand up against their parents or wives cannot stand up against their husbands
Darshini Kumar
@Darshini · 0:53
You beautifully summarized my swell cast. I think in your reply, yeah, I completely understand you sometimes standing up isn't, you know, fighting them or leaving our homes. Standing up is recognizing and realizing that their behavior has nothing to do with us. It's their own dysfunction. And standing up is choosing not to be a part of the dysfunction so that our own self esteem doesn't get ruined so that we don't carry forward the hurt towards others