@Cosbyal4165
Al Cosby
@Cosbyal4165 · 4:55

If you could choose anyone, who?

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And more so just how they carry themselves in regards to their attitude and how they treat other people and how they are around other people. It makes me say like, oh, I want to get to know who this girl is and see what she's about or at least try to get to know her for the right reasons and not just base it off of looks alone to see if I could do something physical with her

Who you liked or loved THEN vs Who you like or love NOW!!

@Essielayne1sShe
Essielayne 1sShe
@Essielayne1sShe · 4:11
You. Hi, thank you for your post asking if you could choose anyone who and my first thought was, well, it depends on the scenario. But then as you talked throughout your podcast, I realized you're talking about social, romantic relationships between and among people. And I was searching my mind as you talked about this question coming to you in your dream. And then something you thought about once you woke up and the timeline between you asking yourself this question as a young
@Cosbyal4165
Al Cosby
@Cosbyal4165 · 3:38

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And if you had that choice, would you consider it now versus how you felt back then? And because you've grown, you've had time to move on and do other things. And for me, that would be the scary part. So it's like somebody that you met back then that you liked for whatever the reason was and whether it worked out or not, then if you fast forward to today based on who you meet now and then who?
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Swell Team
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@Scribe7
Mike W
@Scribe7 · 5:00

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And the one that's going to pull me up on my stuff if I can find that in the same person, that'd be great, because that's like me in here trying to tell somebody what to do or trying to tell somebody how to live or try to tell somebody how they doing. You know what I mean? I don't know nothing about being in a successful relationship because I'm not in one. If I was in one, I would tell you
@BEAUTIFULSOULMI
SOUL MIND
@BEAUTIFULSOULMI · 3:17

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That maybe I'm at the store one day picking out, I don't know, a piece of steak or something, or maybe I'm on vacation and I'm swimming through the water or walking through the sand, or I'm just believing in divine destiny for that. I wouldn't choose anyone in regard to romantic aspects, but if I was to choose someone to come back to life and be with me, it would be my grandmother
@Andrea_Speaks
Andrea Piggue
@Andrea_Speaks · 4:08
But if you take a look at where you've been and what's happened, then you can make better choices because you can see how those things worked out. So you can make better choices. I think a lot of times that's why you'll hear people saying, why dated the same person?
@WNPerspectives
Wende Neen
@WNPerspectives · 1:48
And I think it's because although I may have been somewhat different then because obviously a lot of our experiences sort of put us where we are in our mindset and kind of understanding ourselves and getting more familiar with what we like and don't like. I think I still would continue to move forward with what I would want or choose, and it would not have been anyone from my past
@AnngieKaye
Angela Kaye
@AnngieKaye · 4:25
And so I don't know, now that I'm talking it out loud, I don't know if he would be anyone I would be with, because I had an opportunity, and I just felt like we're so much better off as friends. I just saw him a couple of months ago at my sister's funeral. Because, like I said, this cat has been in my life for 30 years. He knows my sister very well, my mom, everybody
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