Now, for the women, it may be a little bit different because, again, they're built with emotion. But then there are times where men go through things and those emotions are just hard for them to fathom, but they have to just find a way to deal with it. That's just how the society molded us. But at the same time, it's like I said in the beginning, I have to say the same thing in the end

In regards to feelings

@Renee_Slay
Renee Slay
@Renee_Slay · 3:26
So just being empathetic in any situation is, I think, the key to life. But especially if you have to let someone down in the fact that they wanted to go on a date with you or they wanted to be your friend and you didn't want that in your life. I think we do need to be careful about how we respond to those situations and not then go around and talk about rejecting somebody? Because I see a lot of that too
@Cosbyal4165
Al Cosby
@Cosbyal4165 · 2:52

@Renee_Slay

I know girls and I know ladies, rather, they go out just to reject people. It's like they just get a kick out of that. But then a person is being rejected, they're not even taking that into consideration. But anyhow, that's where I was coming from when I pretty much said what I said in regards to reciprocation. And again, it goes back to what I said earlier. Nobody's forced to like anybody
@Swell
Swell Team
@Swell · 0:15

Welcome to Swell!

@Renee_Slay
Renee Slay
@Renee_Slay · 2:55
Hi, and thank you for your response. Just to pipe back in here a little bit, I understand a little bit better where you're coming from now. I'm actually 45 and rocking it. But just to get back to what you were saying, knowing people that go out just to reject other people is dis. Not you knowing them, but their act is disgusting. It's disgusting. Dusting it literally turns my stomach
@Cosbyal4165
Al Cosby
@Cosbyal4165 · 2:48

@Renee_Slay

So once people know that you're feeling them a certain way, what happens a lot of time is they'll take advantage of that and they be like, al right, I'm not getting who I really want, so I'm going to just fall back and take advantage of this person and that person knowing that they have feelings. And I'm not saying that that's the right thing either, but again, that's how it is
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