So if I'm trying to do certain things, even trying to get together and hang out or even trying to come meet you, if we do get together and we're doing certain things, you'll cut it off at a certain point. And of course, well, I'm a man, so of course, for the women that I've encountered that with, it's your prerogative based on what you like and what you don't like, what's your type and what's not your type
Kitha Larie
@chitchatwithkk · 3:06
Hey, good evening. I was listening, and I was trying to figure out just exactly what you were saying by a different set of rules in that case with the girl at church. I don't think it was necessarily a different set of rules. I think that she knew maybe that she wasn't attracted to you on that level, but she also knew you were a nice person. So in that case think she probably used you for your kindness
Al Cosby
@Cosbyal4165 · 2:23
So even when things were going on, not saying that I put myself on her like that, but when there were certain things that I wanted to do, like if I ask like, hey, you want to hang out and do this and do that, now all of a sudden it's quite like Why?
Swell Team
@Swell · 0:15
Maurice Lekea
@malekea · 4:53
That can happen to you, to anybody. Anyone. And when people don't really like you and want to be in a relationship with you, we have to respect that because you cannot expect to be loved or to be liked by every single human, men and women. We have to respect that. Those who don't want to be in a relationship with us, they have their own reasons, they know what they really want in their lives and they know so what they don't want
Al Cosby
@Cosbyal4165 · 2:16
And I said that earlier, like in a swell cast, I mean, who you like and who you don't like is your prerogative in regards to the decision you make in regards to whether if you want to get to know somebody or not. But again, sadly, when people are not really feeling you that way and then you do hang out with them, again, they make up things as they go along. This way they're comfortable with the whole situation